Please help me I’m about to cave

Someone call me and make it seem like a family emergency

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None of my friends or family is texting me back that can do it rn

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On it got you

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PM me your number

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You got this! Stay strong! :muscle:t3: When I started my sober journey I opted for a club soda with lime, diet coke with lemon, or tea with lemon. All the liquids allowed me to excuse myself to go to the ladies room. :rofl: But it also gives you a chance to privately collect yourself. :woman_in_lotus_position:t4:

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You arent alone. The first time i went to a wedding sober i was fine for 2 hours but then i just was soooo overwhelmed i had to leave. I didnt drink but i felt i should have been stronger. Others explained it to me that i was strong to realize what was best for me and take action.

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I can report success! :heartpulse:

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I shake when I feel like relapsing bc the craving is so intense. Its a physical battle as much as a mental battle. The best thing to do is go to God. Others call it a higher power as not to exclude but I can’t bring myself to say there’s any other higher power other than The Lord our Savior. You can do all things through Christ who gives you strength. YOU CAN DO THIS! say that to yourself again and again. “I have the power of God within me and I CAN DO THIS!” we all believe in you here in this community. If u need help, seek us out. First seek out God and just as he tells us, we can’t fight our battles solely. We need community. That’s how we were made. Let us help you by admitting u need us! First step in AA we admit we are powerless over alcohol and our lives have become unmanageable. When we admit this guess what we’ve done? We have taken out power BACK! U got this I believe in u. Good luck!!!

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This brought tears to my eyes. Your want to not drink was stronger than your willingness to give it up.
You asked for help. You talked through it. You kept talking through it and you got the help you needed. You’re going to bed a sobriety winner tonight. Congratulations!
Tools and plans can help you succeed. Also accountability and community.
Super proud of you!
One day at a time.

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She was a rockstar tonight! So proud of how she handled a tough situation so early in sobriety. You’re right, Alisa, building that tool box and strategies is so important now and always.

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So awesome!!! You did all the right things and made it through a tough situation :muscle: :clap:. These victories will make your sobriety much stronger.

This made my night :slightly_smiling_face:

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Thank you soooo much for your call it helped me sooo much to actually talk to someone and give me strength! Not only did it help but I feel I made a new friend :heartpulse:

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It was a great conversation and connection! Well done, friend :heartpulse:

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Thank you guys so much I am crying right now I’m happy tears! You have no idea how much this community is helping me and saving my life! You all are amazing and I appreciate all your support and encouragement! :smiling_face_with_three_hearts:
I finally can say I’m making it to day 6 and I’ve never hit day six in such a long time I can’t even remember.

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Thank you this means a lot!!! I pray all the time and you responding was meant for me to see! :pray:t3:

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This thread brought tears to my eyes, such is the strength of a sober community and well done for hearing the people here, taking it in board and doing something about it. You can now wake up on day 6 with a smile on your face🙏

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Gosh im proud of you for coming here to speak to like minded prople who truly understand so that you dont pick up… that is exactly what this community is for to give strength and understanding to our fellow addicts when they are in need, this was a masterclass on what to do when your struggling! Well done :clap: :heart::people_hugging:

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This thread made my morning! Thank you so much for using the tools you had and making it through to day 6 friend! Now let’s keep it gong. One day at a time as always. Huge victory for you! :people_hugging:

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I definitely will be waking up with a big smile on my face and as I lay down to rest tonight my mind is at ease and my anxiety is rested for now. I suprised myself by showing how much strength I can have! :pray:t3:

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Thank you I am very happy as I lay down to rest for the night and extremely grateful!

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