Keeping you in my prayers tonight, Rob.
@Rockstar24777 thank you so much for checking in mate, im so grateful that you have somewhere safe, here, where you can be honest and people are really caring and non-judgmental. that’s such a huge blessing. you are trying your best and the fact that you’re still here and in touch with folks, not isolating yourself and hiding your secret burdens away, that’s a huge indication of your destiny of success for your well-being. you’re safe, you’re doing the work, you’re learning and growing every day, you’re staying in communication and staying accountable, and that’s a lot to be proud of. life is really fucked sometimes and sometimes it seems like everything’s broken including you — but even tho it feels that way it’s not the whole truth. you’re not broken, you’re hurting but things can always change. you deserve more peace, and it’s attainable. just stay, don’t leave. stay and keep fighting for yourself, you’re 100% worth it.
Thank you @Lisa07 and @JuliaLuna I’m truly fighting through this thank you so much for the support it really helps
Please stay close. Please stay!! May you find some peace tonight.
Rob you have so much to live for. you are an amazing man. I know its hard for you right now , but it will get better. I know you feel like you have no one around you, think of it as it being an opportunity to let the next new amazing person in your life , when its the right time. You are still young and have so much opportunity ahead of you. Stay with us friend
As hard as it is to imagine, it gets better. There is love, beauty and inspiration in the tiniest things. Just think of all of the people who have yet to meet and get to know the essence of you. So much yet to explore and learn!! Sometimes when I am really struggling, if I take it 10 minutes at a time and think to myself, “What can I do to take care of myself for the next 10 minutes?” It may be taking a walk or a shower, texting a friend, eating a snack, listening to music as loud as I can stand or writing all my shit in a journal. We can stand anything for 10 minutes. Then I move on to the next 10. Sending so much love and peace your way. We are here for you.
Thank you @Irisees919 I appreciate that very much. I actually took a shower and then went outside barefoot in the grass and did some literal grounding. It felt so nice to be in the moment and feel the earth. I really appreciate everyone always being here for me it means so much to have support like this when it gets really dark. Thank you again to you and everyone that’s walking beside me through everything I’m going through, love you guys
I’m so sorry to hear that Rob. We’re all here for you as a family! You have our light in your darkest moments!
How have you been the last couple of days?
Doing a lot better today thank you! @Girlinterrupted lead me to a Facebook group for grieving parents that have been amazing to me ever since I joined. It’s really helping, thanks for asking!
That is great to hear!! I lost a sister 35 years ago. My parents didn’t have any resources. It was sad.
Awwww that’s awful! Sorry @Mbwoman i just saw this now for some reason, I wasn’t ignoring you!!!
Rob, I knew that!! This is a busy place and we, thankfully, have busy lives. Thank for your kind words.