Hey. I’m Joe. My life is a shit show. And the alcohol is just making shit worst.
I’m 36 years old. I’m a firefighter. I’m a father to 2 boys.
Despite being employed I don’t have a dollar to my name. No savings. Nothing.
I love my kids very much but I am ashamed that they got stuck with me as a Father. And because I am ashamed, I avoid them. I blame my abscence on work, when really I’m just a drunk loser, but I don’t think it will do any good for them to know that.
I have almost no friends. 3 to count really. 2 of which are aware of my situation and I’m sure actively avoid me. And 1 whom I’m in love with but my drinking has put her in harms way more than once and drove her into the arms of another man, but we still hangout… its a toxic situation.
I have zero relationship with my family because I feel nothing but shame when I’m around them. So I avoid them despite their limitless love.
I’m teetering on the edge of losing my job as a firefighter because of my drinking. I’m literally one bad day away from being unemployed and most likely homeless.
I don’t want to admit that “I’m an alcoholic.” I hate the idea that I CAN’T beat something. I hate the idea that I’ll never be able to drink with friends (if I ever find some) AA and meetings feel… cultish at times so I stopped going.
So why am I here?.. well… I guess I’m just sick and tired of being a loser.
I recently hurt the woman I love… again.
My firehouse doesn’t trust or respect me.
I’m shamefully asking people to spare money to help me get to the next paycheck.
And my boys need a father and I’m too ashamed to be anywhere near them.
I’m fuckin tired of it. My “last” drink was 5 days ago.