Sober Selfies #15 (shirts required, please review rules)

Happy Sunday :heart:

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Love to see a fellow sun child :sun_with_face: hope you enjoyed!

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A selfie Ron last week when I felt a bit more upbeat x

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Aw. I think it’s hella cute.

So proud of you, Karen & love following your journey :kissing_smiling_eyes:

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Finding peace in the hammock as the family circus is going crazy

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Super proud of you and the way you’re using your “tools”. You’re looking great too. Calm and content and not frazzled and wanting to drink to cope.

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:wink: :orange_heart:

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Hey peeps, thx for the support…
I really like what we have going on here

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4.5 years. Hell yeah, brother!

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Looking stunning ole chap

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While everyone was dying Easter eggs I was dying my hair,

It was a great day stopped and saw my oldest sons new apartment, got something accomplished, had fun,

It’s weird, everyone said I got better when I got sober, but this time around, they are like you look and sound better Vs the last time you were here.

For the first time, since being sober, I feel free, making baby steps in progress each day, I don’t feel chained down or having to explain myself to people who were trying to keep me down for their own benefit.

I have a show tonight it’s Monday on the East Coast. And it’s the first time I feel good about it, I invited people and don’t feel like I’m gonna be questioned for the invites

It’s a selfie, couldn’t resist the avatar filter tho

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Down in the dumps lately but still smiling.

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What’s going on Mikey? Ppl are here for you, don’t forget. :purple_heart:

@Fury that was lovely to read about the growing peace and confidence in you. Love it. :green_heart:

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Thank you bro, I hope your gig kicked ass! Proud of you! :sunglasses::metal:t2:

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Thanks, just should of never got into a relationship. Moved a little to fast and idk thought I was mentally healed and ready for it. But I wasn’t, the girl wanted to take a step back she said and then just slowly hasn’t been texting at all and it’s really fucked with me and makes me feel like something is wrong with me. My mind just wasn’t ready, but im glad I am in a safe environment for this.

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Sober and smoke free

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Hey, aw man that sucks big time. Love and attraction are hard to navigate. You always feel like you have to be so vulnerable and bare your underbelly, chances of getting hurt are pretty high, I get you. It’s exhausting.

I’m also glad you’re in a safe environment. :orange_heart: :smiling_face_with_tear:
What I tell myself is: I can’t influence where someone else is in their life. I also can hardly influence where I am in mine. I can just try and be aware of it and accept it. Sometimes I need to make experiences to gain that awareness. Sometimes I learn that I’m in a surprising place. Sometimes I hurt a lot. And sometimes it feels like it’s all futile and I just wanna shut up and stay in my room forever. Deadlifts will be my boyfriend. Fuck everyone.
Then I have to trust that it’ll feel different a different day. And that none of that stuff means that I am worthless or broken. And neither are you.

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Omg I love all of this so much!! So beautifully said!

@anon53116147 sending hugs! Matters of the heart are never easy, I’m team deadlift also :joy:
Glad you felt comfortable to share and that you have a safe environment around you :heartpulse:

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I fuckin love this. :muscle::fire::green_heart:

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Thanks I appreciate the insight and agree deadlifts will be my best friend. Thanks @Becsta you guys rock and happy y’all are like my family. Much love

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