Good for you Venica! It’s nice to get focused and get clean. It makes a big difference 
So many people here have been in your shoes. If you search your DOC (drug of choice - whichever substance you’ve been using) in the search bar you’ll find a good collection of threads.
I find this thread helpful for learning about getting sober and stable - so many good podcasts, books, groups - it’s helped me learn about people’s journeys:
This thread is nice for checking in and catching up - staying connected is important; when we get sober we have lots of time (now that we’re not using) and we need to have something to do!
Checking in daily to maintain focus #38
And then of course - the cats and the dogs (and other pets)
Browse around here, I’m sure you’ll find threads and topics you’re interested in. You deserve a safe space where you can find your “sober legs” and walk your path to be the person you want to be.
Welcome to Talking Sober!