I absolutely love this way of thinking 
. We are forever changing…sometimes we change along with our loved ones and sometimes apart. At times the apart creates too big of a distance for us to continue in life together. Grateful that you are seeing the changes as a part of you and not shrinking yourself to fit anyone else’s mold or vision. You be you!!
Glad you had your DND on and weren’t bothered by the late night messages. Funny how someone can create something out of thin air ..
I hope you found him…share please 
This is Year-round Halloween 
Here’s the thread in case I didn’t link before.