To all the do gooders and people that seem to know the proper way

Been here over a year and relapsed once in that time I do read and maybe don’t understand everyone’s addiction but a know drink and drugs especially drugs 10 year habit blah blah.everyone here an addict there’s programs and medical help for majority of people really just came here to say goodbye as this community really gets on my tits same people offering the same advice sitting all high and mighty(you all know who u are)it’s like a clique u get in a local pub and it only getting worse none of this helps me a only come for a nosy and genuinely wish everyone all the best if u want to stay clean and sober fucking man up life’s too short take Care

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Life is also too short to worry about the thoughts and actions of others. That is the next step, uou need to take man. Blaming others for their actions, good intentions or not, isn’t a way to live. It’s some black and white thinking if you ask me; which means you have other work to do and issues beyond drinking to deal with.
If you feel you’ved moved past what is offered here, great. The app is always there if you need it. I am sorry you feel so alienated; I’m sure thats not the intentions. All the best to you, mate.

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Is this the type of behavior that fosters an environment of open, honest, vulnerability?

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Not alienated m8 just same repetitive shit day in day out a deleted Facebook and social media 7 year for same reasons

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Be honest tho this forum only helps the people that give the advice I am not saying it’s bad for anyone else me myself and only myself got myself clean

You’re right. Nobody but us, can make it happen.
I’m almost 9 months in, and I old pop in once in a while. I’m glad you have gotten it, as some people never do.
I’ve been hard into doing the work of why I got so fsr down the rabbit hole. We have all beem damaged by something. Easier to push off, than move on.
There are lots of great books that I have been fortunate enough to come across. Disciple, healing, and doing the work to get there is 100% on us.

Well, take good care Colin. I agree.this spot isn’t for everyone. Sobriety first and everything else just works.

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All the best ladies and gentlemen am the best av ever felt high on life…even when it’s silent

The thing I value the most about this forum is the range of approaches on offer. I’ve learned so much here. Sorry to hear it hasn’t been helpful to you, but we’ve all got our own paths to follow. Wish you all the best on yours and the door is open if you ever choose to return :pray: :sparkling_heart:

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All the best, you’re welcome back here whenever :blush:

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What kinda of behavior??? Because I submitted a comment with faces laughing?? How do you know what my comment means?? How do you know what I’m laughing at? Maybe people need to be less presumptuous about what people are saying on here and then people wouldn’t feel like they are not enjoying being in the community…

I love me a good send off thread.

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Does anyone know what caused all this commotion?

i think it was the do gooders getting on his tits?

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That confused me too. ST may not be perfect but what’s wrong with do gooders? I feel for the guy and hope he’s okay/seems like he is. We’re all human here and we’re not going to please everyone.

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It seems odd. He hasn’t posted in a week and then comes back like this

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10 posts were split to a new topic: English spelling thread as @Nordique suggested

Good luck sonna - and steer well awa from the Buckfast!

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