To the few who believe this to be a sober tinder

And I replied before I caught up on the rest of the thread. The placement of my last comment looks odd. :joy: I swear that Iā€™m not a creep. A weirdo though, that Iā€™ll own.

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I got propositioned sometimes when my avatar was still a pic of me. Itā€™s a nuissance I donā€™t miss.

But then I once gave a long time member a compliment and was publicly called out for coming on to him by someone else and that made ME feel like a creep and really ashamed. So thereā€™s my twist to this.

@Dan531 Your online aura is pure of any creepiness, let me assure you.

FWIW Iā€™m all for that TS Tinder Thread of Shame. @DarrenUK you get on that!

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Here is where you go for the pic. Username pm a mod and tell them what you want it to be.

Mods are Mno Dazercat Lisa07 Eke Sassy and some others. Donā€™t wanna tag em now tho.

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Are you sure you want to expose Kev to all that harassmentā€¦?

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They have that cute shield looking thing next to their name.

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Iā€™ve been on the internet since webtv came out. In a play off the never have I ever thread I can state clearly that I have never been sent an inappropriate picture. Luckily for them. My spit nails side would come alive :joy:. Iā€™ve been sent comments that broke boundaries but Iā€™m a big girl and shoot them down fast.

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I can edit your username, and I am up now.

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You could also set your account to private so people cannot look at your profileā€¦ Iā€™ve gone back and forth on this myself because in all reality Iā€™m here to help myself and other people and if my posts resonate with somebody and they want to hear more of what i say is nice for them to be able to find themā€¦ on the other hand if you have a creeper or you donā€™t necessarily want people to see your whole journey the private setting is good. I think it also makes it so people cannot pm you but Iā€™m not totally sure about that.

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You can send a PM to @moderators. Just tagging us @moderators does not work. You can tag us individually tho.

@ Sassyrocks
@ siand
@ Eke
@ Mno
@ Lisa07
@ Its_me_Stella
@ Misokatsu
@ Thirdmonkey

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Kev is a dreamboat. I love his photos :heart_eyes: :hamster:

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I would also caution people about calling out members who you believe or know are creeping on people. The FAQ statesā€¦

Respect each other. Donā€™t harass or grief anyone, impersonate people, or expose their private information.

Part of each members social contract with TS is that when you read something or receive something that is troubling, questionable or against the rules, that you FLAG IT and allow the moderators to handle it, versus publicly calling someone out.

As has been expressed many times over the years, vigilantiism will not be tolerated on the forum and can result in your own flag, silencing or suspension.

We take any and all forms of harassment seriously. We also expect forum members to follow the rules and FAQs and allow the process to work as intended.

As always, please PM any concerns or issues to @moderators. Thank you! :slightly_smiling_face:

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I have secretly been hopingā€¦ waitingā€¦ wantingā€¦ needing more pics of Kev :wink:

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Itā€™s what you use to start a fire when youā€™re in the woods. Bear Grylls told me that.

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Lol :laughing: :rofl: :joy: prefect

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Iā€™ve got a a voice for print. Seriously. I get asked if Iā€™m doing a Joe Pesci impressionā€¦to which I reply, ā€œno, Iā€™m just talkingā€.

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This just cracked me up :rofl::rofl::rofl::sunglasses::metal:t2:

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Telling anyone who didnā€™t ask that you w*nked to their pic is encroaching in any context, even on tinder (where Iā€™m not) imo.

Yet to be fair I changed my profile pic for privacy reasons. This was only a welcome side effect.

Really appreciating the loving support by a strong lady on this one. Feels like a hug. Thanks Laura. :heart:

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Kinda worried what sorta PMā€™s youā€™ll be getting now with this pic tho.

Just kidding. :sweat_smile:

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Hi Sassy,
Thanks for the reminder, I think this is a good point for all threads, if you find something wrong or offensive, flag, donā€™t engage. The moderators can help. Have a great day!

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