Weightloss CHECK IN : dont give up (Part 1)

Hi Dana I’m sorry it was not what you hoped for at the weight loss clinic. Sounds like they are rather trying to make money off ppl than help which with such an fundamental topic as weight and health really pisses me off.

The good news is: you don’t need them.

Weight is at core a simple calculation that you have to guard with the right habits.
The calculation is: calories in VS calories out.

Calories in is everything you eat. That should come 80% (aim for 100% and allow yourself the occasional exception) from real foods, that means one-ingredient grown harvested etc things that you put together in your meals. That is to say nothing with 25 ingedients on the back of the package. Fewer packages in general. Meat fish vegetables fruit grains oils nuts. You get the idea.
Throw out soft drinks and processed snacks, you just don’t need them. Exception is bday cake of course.

Calories out is: your BMR = the basic metabolic rate, this is what your body uses as fuel just to keep going, so added activity yet. Plus of course how much more energy you need depending on how active you are in your life. The total amount is called the TDEE = Total Daily Energy Expenditure. Thats the number of what you need to stay where you are.

Of course, you want to change. So this number will get multipled by a certain quotient according to how much you want to lose and how fast.

Nowadays you get great tools that will do all this for you. They even spit out a list of numbers at the end that give you your recommended protein carbs and fat ratios. Your macronutrients This is exactly what you want.

Use this tool to calculate your macros:

https://www.calculator.net/macro-calculator.html

Then you download any macro counter app (I used mymacros back in the day and it helped me a lot, you can even add your own recipes and special foods that you like, so if you bake your own bread you can log a slice of that) to log your daily consumption and keep track. Do it honestly but don’t punish yourself if you don’t match 100% every single day. Aim for 100%, but allow room and time for improvement and growth. It’s a learning curve. And it’s not always going to be absolutely accurate. That’s fine.

This is all you need to do. What goes in, what goes out. Plus keep active on a level that gives you joy and is sustainable for you to be consistent at. For example, don’t aim for 7 days a week at the gym when you know you won’t be able to keep that up. And who could? Aim for three and count the forth a super win if you get it and walk a lot the rest of the days or do a yoga/stretch at home for example. As long as you base the calculation of your TDEE on your actual activity level, not a high expectation you can’t fulfill, you’ll still stay on track. :slight_smile:
Also, track your workouts. A wee notebook or an app, doesn’t matter. But any kind of visualisation will help you stay consistent.

Wish you good luck! You can do this. It’s really all about consistency.

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Thank you sooo much for taking the time to respond. U always have so much wonderful advice and suggestions for fitness and nutrition :slight_smile: have u ever thot about being a nutritionist or something? :slight_smile: I took a look at that calculator u posted and screenshot it :slight_smile: I looked at the balanced results and then also the low carb results which was at like 200 grams of net carbs (which is much more doable for me). And it’s suggesting around 1900 calories for me. So… do I have to figure my OUT calories? Like my TDEE? And then I add up my IN calories from the food I eat and drink? And do the math? Or is that necessary? Bcuz I feel like it will be hard to calculate my calories out from weight lifting and I’ve heard that the calories on the cardio machines isn’t accurate either. My BMR apparently is 1872 calories. So if im consuming 1900 calories plus exercise I should have a deficit? I think that’s right lol u will probably know better :slight_smile:

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Hi Dana, I’m very glad you’re finding the info helpful :slight_smile:

so, if you entered your data and your activity level and your goal (mild / moderate weight loss, whatever you chose) on the link I posted, the number you get out and the individual grams of protein carbs and fat are already what your goal for consumption should be to reach that goal you entered. In other words: if you don’t change your activity level from what you entered and you eat the calories and macros as suggested by the calculator, you will lose weight according to your goal (mildly, moderately, whatever).

Keep in mind: you’ll have to re-take this calculation after some weight loss or if you change your activity levels (due to injury for example, of if you suddenly become obsessed with HIIT or whatever)

No further calculation is needed now. Now you download a macro tracker on your phone and start logging your meals/calories IN, as I described above. This is called calorie counting. This will be a bit laborious at first but after a while you’ll know so much more about what foods equal what macros, it’ll become much easier.

One last thing: you mentioned before that you’ve become a bit obsessed with fitness and weight loss in the past. This happened to me with the calorie counting. Granted, that was long before I started recovery, when I first began with weight lifting , and I just wasn’t mentally stable enough. But just a heads up: observe yourself. This can become addictive and obsessive for folk like us. Doesn’t mean you can’t benefit from this simple scientific approach imo. Just means you gotta use your recovery tools, be kind to yourself, keep perspective, and don’t go down the rabbit hole. :raised_hands::raised_hands::rabbit2::fire::fire:

Easy does it. Consistency is key.

I’m rooting for you!

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I’ve been contemplating cutting weight for a while… I love lifting weights so my holdup was getting weaker while I cut, it’s inevitable. Covid cane along and kicked my ass hard, lost 10 pounds in a few days and then just decided to keep going. I’m down to 186 right now (18 pounds) and I’m weaker but I’m gonna keep going… I’ll stop at 175 i think and see how it treats me.

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You can join Noom and have two weeks of tutorials for free and cancel before they want the $50.00. The beginning tutorials are good if you’ve never done them before. It puts a lot in perspective, a lot of what they have said in the comments to your question here.

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Monday weigh in.
Up a little to 202.6 lbs.
I can deal with that. Especially if I’m sober.
:pray:t2::mountain_snow::green_heart::evergreen_tree:

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Checking in 145.5

My activity this month hasn’t been much. Busy month but glad to see some weight still came off. Being kind to myself. The scale is not moving as fast as I’d like but I’m officially 10 lbs down from where I started.

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I am stuck at 181… I want to get in the 70’s so bad… I want to be honest I am lacking on pushing myself and following my schedule. I have been making excuses or not being disciplined. I want to reach my goal !! Help

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Monday weigh in:
Down 1.2lbs since last Monday. Feeling okay with that :slight_smile:

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179.8 I am in the 70’s!!! Oh my goodness I did not expect that today… I am so happy :grinning: I have 2 more pounds and I have lost 50 pounds . I can do this!! I am so proud of myself for how far I have come and how much I have changed health wise … I am grateful. Hope you all have a great day!!!

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170.8 last week 170.6 this week.

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177.25 lb today. :+1:

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Hopped on the scale. I was 181 and then I was like this isn’t right and it went down to 177.6 the second time I hopped on it. I’ll take that. Down 50 lbs finally!!! 12 more pounds until my goal. I never thought I would make it this far and i started this in February but started seeing results in march so it’s been about 5-6 months. I am happy… let’s goooo

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I had some scales that would vary by up to about 5 or 6 lbs each time I stood on them. I was getting so frustrated that I bought a new set recently which seem much more stable lol.
Good to see the numbers going down though.

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Hey it’s been a minute. Just got 188.2 lbs this morning. Much better than where I was two or three months ago. Getting there!

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In the right direction, so that’s a win.
201.6 lbs.
:pray:t2::mountain_snow::evergreen_tree::heart:

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179 even. I am at a plateau… I am just so badly wanting to be at 177 or lower… anyway. I will be talking to my dietician today for any advice I can use. I walk a lot so I think my body is getting used to the cardio and I need to up my protein intake. Hopefully this passes. I am gonna keep pushing

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I’m up to 172 this week. All my muscles are sore from work and riding a bike to work. Im pleased just being in the lower 170’s.
My belt is loose this week so I think all the work and biking is turning some of my excess fat into muscle. That part is cool.

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Weighing in at 201.8 lbs.
:pray:t2::cactus::purple_heart:

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Monday weigh in
I literally haven’t lost a thing since last week lol I will honestly take it bcuz the last 2 days of eating were horrendous :frowning: so im actually happy I haven’t gained lol I really need to realize that I kind of undue all my hard work when I eat sooo poorly… big potions, sweets, sodas lol I probably would’ve lost weight if I had stayed on point. Honestly tho I’m happy. Did my workout and gonna really stay focused on healthy eating!

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