Hey 
Iām still around. Are you ok?
A lot has happened- split with the wife and navigating as a sober single person which is interesting 
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I was just thinking of her today. Hope she is well 
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Missing my homie @Jftself you good my brother?
Sound off soon!
Hope youāre well my bro, flick me a message if ya need to!
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Hey @Eric & @2JTravNZ Iām still here man thanks for reaching out. I miss you guys to man. I donāt know whatās been going on with me but havenāt been in the best head space. I guess if I was honest I havenāt been practicing all the tools Im learning in recovery like reaching out for example. Iām hoping the reality of it all is me being caught up in self centeredness or something. The miracle of it all is that I am still Clean 84 days today! Just been kinda in my head and unmotivated. Thatās why I do love this community though man you guys definitely have the power to get me out of isolation mode because I do care for you guys too. Iād hate to see any of you just disappear I gotta remember its not all about me. Iām on my way to the job site right now still out of town for work. I love you guys man thanks again for checking up on me and for having me in youāre thoughts. Iām still in a funk but Iāll start to drop in more often . Hope you and youāre familys are doing well much love 
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I was thinking about something today and this sentence makes it clear. What stood between me and reaching out? To be honest it was bc the decision was already done. And coming here would have only nourished the other side whispering: it wonāt make anything better. I would have felt given advice which I already knew. All I was looking for was someone to listen. Only to listen and give a hug is impossible in this format.
I am not answering directly to you, it was more of a reflection as to also why people reach out and then disappear. The decision was already done.
What I love about this place is that itās always open even when we fall off. When we disappear in anger.
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84 days clean! Fucken aye!!
Good for you man.
Thanks for the update.
Sometimes when Iām not sure of whatās going on around here (my head or TS) I resort to just listing some gratitude on the gratitude thread. It helps me out a lot.
Iām glad your still in this fight.
Youāre so worth it.
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Morena brother
Just opened my eyes to your message, thanks for checking in my bro and hope things get better soon.
84 days is massive brother one day at a time aye!
Just about to get up for work to and head out for the day.
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@Twizzlers hey, missing your posts, hoping youāre okay and havent been dragged into the cupboard by demons!? 
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I love this and thank you for thinking of me 
Iām doing good, just been busy an have allot of catching up to do here !
You are so thoughtful too check on me thank you 
Hopper your are doing okay Yourself, Iāll spend some time here tonight, it was my plan for yesterday evening but I ended up in bed 
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Hi Anthonyā¦ I realy appreciate that!
Glad to read you. Hugs!
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Still thinking about @Rockstar24777 every day and hoping my sober twin comes back 
@anon9289869 you are missed as well!!
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Thank you still making the most of each day, just trying to get through some difficulties.
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Sending love and strength. It certainly feels like 2023 is bringing in some challenges and changes.
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Hi @erntedank, thank you for missing me! I am fine, but Captain Kruger is not so good these days. He has terrible arthritis and now has stopped eat. We are very worried.
Weāve got a trip to the vets on Saturday to see how heās doing, which may go very badly. So Iām giving him lots of love and heās purring but Iām scared. Please say a prayer for us. I love him so much.
I hope you and your beautiful babies are OK.We are so lucky to spend our lives with these beautiful cats.xxx
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