“My choice to drink on an empty stomach wasn’t to get drunk, its because I wanted to save my body from waking up gaining weight. I’m ashamed thats the reason, but yes I’d cycle to work, run in at lunch time, and then go to the pub, so it was an empty stomach and I knew I’d be drinking the calories so I didn’t want to be totally unhealthy. ridiculous excuse I suppose now I hear it.”
That was interesting. I would eat something at lunch then not eat for the rest of the day. I wanted the systemic shock of alcohol on an empty stomach when I got home or went out that night.
I am glad you are seeing some positive turns w your boyfriend. That support is immeasurable in value. My wife chooses not to in deference to me, though she never drank much anyway. We do live in the rural South, so our town only started allowing alcohol sales on Sundays less than ten years ago. People drink, but it isn’t a ‘drinking culture’ kind of thing.
Look at the information on ‘keto diet’. I am betting the sugar craving can be overcome. Certainly not pushing diet on anyone, just good information on how your body processes and ‘craves’ sugar.
Again, I quit 1 Jan 2014. I weighed abt 240 lbs and had been close to 250. Looking back at pics, I always think, “Holy Crap, I look like a total slob.” I stayed around 220 lbs for a few years and then I decided to get serious about it in late 2019. I stay between 196 and 206 depending on how hard I am exercising. I ran my first 5K this year at age 50.
I have come to the conclusion, that “Quitting is easy, it’s staying quit that’s a bitch.” Just like you had to learn to drink, you have to learn to not to.
Let’s be honest, Whatever your delivery system, you probably didn’t like it the first time you tried it. I mean it was fermented something and fermented isn’t ever a tasty option. What happens is that I/you/we realize that beer/red wine isn’t real tasty but is followed by the rewarding kick of alcohol, so we eventually learn to associate the two and think “Wow, I like red wine,” when what we really like is the kick from the alcohol.
I have now finished y rambling for the day.
Best,
Chandler