Oh @anon79808082 I’m so sorry to hear this. Praying he finds his way to sobriety! Hugs 
mama. Hang in there. 
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Day 11 for me! Looking towards a sober weekend with my family!!
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Thanks Cristel. His ex told me all this the other day and I have been a wreck. I’ve reached out to him but he’s not responding.
Back from the Pizza place/bar. I had sparkling water only. There was only a few people there today, and one lady was having red wine. I don’t even drink red wine because I don’t like it. But when I saw how happy she was with her wine I really wanted some too. Luckily we where on our way to leave at that point so I was kinda saved by the bell. Food was average so we probably won’t go again for a long while. Now we’re back home and everyone’s relaxing with some beers in the garden and I’m about to open a chilled Pepsi Max.
Thank you everyone for your support today
Tomorrow there’s next challenge waiting BBQ night.
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That’s us romanticizing alcohol. You did great and now you have tools to use going into that bbq 
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Good on you for being strong!
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Well done! The BBQ should be just another event that you’re prepared for. Just take it one minute at a time. You’ve got this. 
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Thank you everyone
I’m going to prepare and stay strong for tomorrows event too.
The romanticism will probably disappear tomorrow when the hangovers hits for the rest of my company tomorrow, luckily my sister is staying sober with me.
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you know you don’t have to put yourself in temptation, if at any point your not comfortable get out, you are the most important person right now. Well done on your win today though
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I don’t like how coffee makes my heart feel. I get really fast heart beats and jittery. But, for some reason I’ve been craving the taste of coffee so bad. I am currently drinking decaf coffee right now and it is so oddly hitting the spot it makes no sense. Lmao
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I’m gonna have to do it sooner or later, because even if I’m doing this everyone else keeps going on with their lifestyle. So I better do it now anyway. But I keep talking about it, so I’m sure it’ll be easier soon.
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if I drank coffee I would bounce off walls if I drink lucazade I shake and sweat, if I ever drank a can of energy drink I would die. How about a nice cup of tea 
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a great busy and constructive weekend planned
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Well it might not be that constructive, but it was planned long before I decided to stop drinking.
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only you know how you feel but I once spent time at a bar and didn’t drink all night the next day I woke up really smug with myself and decided I was cured so I got drunk. Be careful. 
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Enjoy babes 
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Same! But, I just want the taste of the coffee for some reason. I got it and I’m happy. 
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Omg, I can totally understand that way of thinking. And I’ll stay careful, thank you 
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