Checking in daily to maintain focus #20

I was gonna ask that @Thirdmonkey start a sober-pedi-selfie thread! :joy:

Does Ms. Monkey know she goes by Ms. Monkey on here? :laughing: :hear_no_evil:

Edit: just saw subsequent posts that continued the dialogue and teasing! thank you Olivia and @anon79808082! :joy:

And thank you ThirdMonkey for warming our hearts so much by sharing your love story - itā€™s simply delightful - as are you and the beauty Ms.Monkey :blush: :orange_heart:

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Day 119.
Thatā€™s 17 weeks. If you told me this time last year that Iā€™d be here today, Iā€™d never believe you. Itā€™s kookoo bananas what can change in a year. Itā€™s not like the last 119 days have been a walk in the park, but Iā€™d take 'em over any day with a glass in my handā€¦

Change is slow, and definitely not linear, but itā€™s little things - like realizing Iā€™ve forgotten to think about having a drink. Iā€™m not just visiting, Iā€™m putting down roots here on the sober side of the fence. Glad I could join the neighbourhood :relaxed:

Gā€™night all - letā€™s do another day tomorrow. Big love. :orange_heart:

@Clarity you are facing your grief with such courage - so proud of you.
@anon27760155 you are facing your life with courage - so proud of you!
@Misokatsu no offense taken, at least by me! canā€™t imagine you being anything but your kind, funny, supportive self. if you had a bad day, donā€™t be hard on yourself.
@Peace yer killinā€™ it!
@Tomek seems like youā€™re showing your parents what it means to love unconditionally. they are lucky to have a son to lead them through this as you are. your courage too is inspiring.

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1413 days today. Wasnā€™t feeling it in todayā€™s IOP therpy group. One woman had to keep giving her $0.02 without anyone asking for it. But what are you gonna doā€¦!

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Mwahahaha!!!:wink::wink:
Youā€™d be surprised at what I know.


Feb 1st 2010
I was a fat fuck :crazy_face: back then.
I did not go in the water. Too many things could kill you. We Just enjoyed the glass bottom boat.

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Day 14 at Valley Hope. Back to myself again & one more week to go before I get to go home & back to the job & co-workers I love & miss so much!!!

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Bahahaha too many things could kill you lol :joy:ā€¦ You know what though, in Australia there have been a lot of shark attacks lately. Heaps more than normalā€¦normally the ocean isnā€™t a concern, we grow up in it here from knee high as kids so nothing scares us here, but lately the sharks have been going crazy attacking surfers.

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403 Days. I have a 3 month commitment as the chairperson at my womanā€™s Monday night meeting. I would have never considered doing this a year ago but I think itā€™s time I start giving back. Tonight was special. It was a celebration meeting and I gave a year coin to a very deserving lady. Sheā€™s very quiet and it was nice to hear her speak about the past year. She brought us all to tears. The connections Iā€™ve made here and AA are absolutely priceless. I wish I would have known how great sobriety can be years ago. Love to my awesome TS family. :heart:

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Thanks for sharing that @Lisa07, that really made me smile

956, checking in :slight_smile:

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2973d1e3e4b616c77dfcefdc0003d0604ee09a49e069451307a07609a7b3ecc6.0
Hereā€™s to a fantabulous sober day @Dragonflygirl82 & @Frank68, enjoy!
:musical_score: :confetti_ball: :birthday: :gift: :cup_with_straw::hugs::hugs:
Blessings and sobriety!
:sparkling_heart:

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And Iā€™m going on day number 7 with no vaping or smoking cigarettes. First 2 days were really hard but itā€™s getting easier each day. Good night every one and keep up the good work.

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Great numbers, congrats on the 300 days smober. A beautiful freedom from a stinky, unhealthy. killer habit. :tada::confetti_ball:
Blessings and sobriety!
:sparkling_heart:

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I was wondering that very same thing!!! :rofl::rofl::rofl: Great minds think alike, Emm @M-be-free49 :face_with_hand_over_mouth::wink: @Thirdmonkey

Reminds me of something that happened years agoā€¦ I was hanging out with friends when one received a call from his girlfriend. He had set the Darth Vader theme as her ringtone :speak_no_evil::speak_no_evil::speak_no_evil: I asked if the girlfriend knew about this and he blushed, looked sheepish and said nothing :see_no_evil: We almost died laughing :rofl::rofl::rofl:

The story has a beautiful ending. They married not long afterwards and are still married with kid #1 :sparkling_heart::sparkling_heart::sparkling_heart:

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  1. Coffee. Bad night. Nervous about the ms teams meeting I have with one of the two therapists that will conduct my upcoming group therapy. I feel as if my life depends on it. Which it doesnā€™t but still. I waited bloody long for it. Not even sure it will happen as she hasnā€™t sent me a link for it yet. And not even sure the group will happen as we have a lockdown hanging over our heads.
    In other news I got my third negative covid test result yesterday. I almost start wishing itā€™d be positive for a change. But not quite really. And getting my flu shot this morning. Two more late shifts left before my vacay. Yay. Have a good day all. Sober and clean. Love from Amsterdam.
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Happy belated birthday Courtney. Congratulations that you were able to celebrate your special day embracing sobriety. A most precious gift. Much love and respect my friend. :heart:

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Day 3 fasting and day 3 caffeine free, 723 day alcfree I think. Anyway I feel like being 80 or so. I have all supposed fasting symptoms, backpain, migrain-like headache. Iā€™ll got to the gym doing a light course and into sauna.

I wish everyone a nice and sober Tuesday!

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Day 8 pills, day 95 alcohol

Sleep remains tricky, tho itā€™s partly due to the small people in the household and long standing issues with insomnia not just the absence of pills. However I do accept that pills were often a good cure for insomnia - tho the price was not being present for the kids, who I love so much and want to be here for.
Without numbing as a response to complicated situations I find I now need strategies and emotional coping mechanisms. I heard someone say yesterday that in sobriety it gets easier then harder then easier. I donā€™t know if thatā€™s true but I have found that initially it was easier without the guilt or fatigue but now Iā€™m having the adjust to difficult situations where drinking or pilling canā€™t be a crutch anymore.
Today Iā€™m working on patience - being present in the moment and trying to note cues when Iā€™m losing patience.

@Thirdmonkey hits it on the head ; ā€œSobriety is far more than just ā€œnot drinkingā€

And @Mno good luck, you got this!

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Merrrry Xmas to allll :sparkler::fireworks::sparkles:great news.

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Love hearing your getting a sponsor, this is life changing and youā€™ll wonder why you didnā€™t do it earlierā€¦ proud of you and well done on your sober days :+1:

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Did this last night and will likely do this every day for the next month. Turns out once you start with one resentment they all flood out. Good luck and I pray for you.