Checking in daily to maintain focus #26

Congratulations on 500 days keep up the good work :partying_face::call_me_hand:

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Can we sit it the back today and make some noise?
:crazy_face:

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While I cannot understand a word spoken, Finnish is one of the most beautiful langauages I have ever heard… between you and Conor I am in language listening heaven. Congrats on the busy work week and day 53!

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@Dazercat @littlemisschatterbox Congratulations :tada::balloon::confetti_ball:
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I’m so sorry you and your brother and your sisters are going through this.

When our children put us through this Alanon saved my life. And Alanon is still saving my life.

Addiction is so fucking hard to deal with when it’s a loved one. But there is help for us out there.

I’ll pray for you and your siblings.
:pray::heart:

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Not in the best place today. Taking the better part of the day off work. I have a meeting later and an invoice to whip up and that’s all I’m willing to do. This whole thing with my daughter and ex-husband and his wife has me pretty fucked up.

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I’m sorry to hear you’re having a rough time. At least we’re still sober :slightly_smiling_face:

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Very sad for you and your family. Very. :pensive::pensive:

I’m glad you like it! I think accents and languages are such a marvellous thing!

Thank you! :heart:

Congratulations on 400 days…:partying_face::call_me_hand:

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yay! yay! yay! 400 days today!

For all you do here,
and all you are,
for keeping us buoyed
from your home afar

for your kind words
your humour too!
your fantabulous example of 400 days!
we adore you! :heartpulse:

There we go - amateur poetry hour here on TS!
Congrats Eric. Let’s do another day. I know we can. :orange_heart:

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I so sorry! Hugs :hugs:

PS: I like your numbers :+1:

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Day 368. I cant stop thinking about last night. It’s definitely bugging me. I know I need to just move on, but it was just a fucked up thing. Something that is easier said then done. Did a decent little jog and working on cleaning the house I geuss. Much love

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Congratulations Eric! Enjoy your day!!!
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This is the best!!! :joy::joy::joy:

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Whoop whoop Beth! Well done!
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I had to reset my porn timer again. I am beginning to think it is better to not even try anymore. I am still smoke-free, which is a big deal…
I know there is hope that one day I will be porn free; and, not have such a sexual dysfunction. Right now, though, I do not know if it is worth fighting anymore. It seems like there is so much shit on my plate… not to mention it helps me stay ā€œnormalā€.
It is better to sabotage this than my relationships. It is easy to offer platitudes for something like this…however I have a complex personality disorder. Porn helps me not cheat on my wife with men. But it kills my intimacy with her. Ugh. Not having a good morning. I could choose healthy coping mechanism…or…I could binge eat.

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Thanks y’all.
Couldn’t have done it without y’all.
:pray:t2::heart:

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Thanks @eph-M-eral! Now you are on Day 221? Cool! I’m on Day 10 and feeling great heading into the weekend. I appreciate your wise words. I agree that focusing on ā€œwhat wasā€ will only result in . . . as you said . . . shame! Don’t need any more of that!!

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Now I’m even more cranky than I was before. Just received the grade on my last exam. I passed but I didn’t get the highest grade that I’ve always gotten before.

It sucks!

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