Checking in daily to maintain focus #47

My pleasure!! Have fun!

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Happy hump day! Blessed with awesome weather this week here in Chicagoland. Have great sober day my friends.

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Weā€™re with you. :pray::green_heart:

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Thank you so much!! That really helps!!!

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Reminds me of my neighbor when I try to explain it to him. "Have you ever tried toā€¦ you knowā€¦ not drink? ā€œWow! I would have never thought of that! Thank you for solving all of my problems instantly!ā€ :rofl: But youā€™re doing awesome, Dana, keep it up!

Thatā€™s a beautiful place! Isnā€™t that where they filmed the ending of Inferno?

@BrianP Sounds like fun, I may do that myself. Go gentle on that ankle!
@anon53116147 Noticing your behavior and thinking is the important part. Keep fighting it!

Weird dreams happen in early recovery. And nicotine patches crank up the fun level! :crazy_face:
@Lorelai Thatā€™s a fantastic tribute, hang in there!
@mx_elle We do believe in you, weā€™ve all been there before. :+1:

Day 22Ā½ Woke up after being up and down all night long, got an appointment to run to, but I thought Iā€™d check in early today since I didnā€™t do it for real yesterday. Everybody have a great sober Wednesday! Iā€™ll be back later!

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Yes, it was! :grinning_face_with_smiling_eyes::+1:

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Omg ur comment response to my post made me laugh :laughing: Its true thoā€¦ if it was that easy there would be no one with am addiction or alcoholism. Have an awesome day Mark! Hope ur appt goes well!

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Congratulations on your marriage!:tada::tada::tada:

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You are absolutely right. If my husband still used or even took up something else like drinking (oddly enough heā€™s never had a sip of alcohol in his life due to family stuff), either I wouldnā€™t be clean (or really struggling to stay clean), or I wouldā€™ve left him. Iā€™ve been in relationship with those that still used or drank, while I have been working on my recovery and the relationship never worked out. Along with me relapsing in the end. So I am grateful. I understand that he doesnā€™t understand. And Iā€™ve never really told him what I do everyday for my recovery either. Idk why Iā€™ve never brought it up to him. Never the opportunity to talk about it I guess. I definitly need the support!! Thats without a doubt. And even tho I didnā€™t go to mtgs where I currently live, I spent 9 years in the rooms back home and I definitely took everything I learned from Big Book studies and from reading the Big Book etc. And then of course without you all on TSā€¦ idk where Iā€™d be honestly. I truly donā€™t. I donā€™t think I wouldā€™ve gotten thru some of the hardest times without u all! I donā€™t think Iā€™d be where I am today in my recovery if it wasnā€™t for u all. Grateful for u Alisa and for everyone here!!!

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Iā€™m excited for you. Have a great time. That must have been sob frustrating to have to wait.

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Wow 84 days without smoking? Thatā€™s amazingšŸ‘

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It must be hard to feel ā€œtrappedā€ in your job. I donā€™t know what Iā€™d do for work either if I didnā€™t do my current job. Iā€™m sure there are other short courses you could take to start something new?? I mean I donā€™t really have any suggestions, but there must be some other options :thinking::crossed_fingers:

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I Believe in you too :sparkling_heart: we are all here for you.
Day 7 for me. Didnā€™t think Iā€™d get back here, but here I am.

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So far so good today. Traveling in a car so no drinking. I donā€™t plan on having an when I arrive either.

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I didnā€™t sneak it into the house, I just brought it back to Plattsburgh to this guyā€™s friends house. The staff doesnā€™t care what we do outside the house. But no they wouldnā€™t want it in the house. So I had the guy meet me at the gym and he brought it to his friends house. So it was snuck back in a sense which I wasnā€™t happy about. Iā€™m already in the process of getting it back home and told on myself one of the councilors

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Thanks! Last night was better :blush:

Start of day six. I can tell my fuse is a little short today. Gonna just try to woosahhhhh my way through it. Have a good day everyone.

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Hey Rob,

Come to Germany! As a plumber you get really rich nowadays, because we donā€™t have enough handyman anymore.:wink:

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Checking in. Itā€™s been awhile.


No extra added sugar 2 Weeks

Been busy and doing really well since my last check in. Iā€™m grateful for my Al-Anon meetings. Iā€™m grateful to be blessed to be working 2 recovery programs. Iā€™m grateful I have those programs. I may not follow them exactly but I will have them. Iā€™m grateful I love and live with a constant reminder I never want to go back to drinking again.

Iā€™m grateful to know this to be true :point_down:
Once alcohol is in the system the body wants more. The desire to drink gets the first drink in. The first drink does the rest of it.

Letā€™s not pick up that first drink today!
:pray:t2::mountain_snow::evergreen_tree::yellow_heart:

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Congrats on day 6 Crafty. I spent a lot of time apologizing my first few weeks. Over and over again. Sometimes people, especially loved ones, forgot I had quit drinking. And I was soooo angry I canā€™t drink like a normie.
:pray:t2::blue_heart:

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