You got it my friend - i do wish that it ignited some hope within you 
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75 whole days sober 
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Maybe not the right place to post,but I can’t find a thread either.
I just wanted to show you guys what I found when I was renovating my bedroom.
I had plans on painting the brick block which is a big part of my bedroom white. Or put a wallpaper on that looks like red bricks, later on. But when I removed the last beam for the closet I found this.
I’ve already dated the newspaper and the movie they are doing a commercial for is called Smash up-tye story of a woman. And had movie premiere (Which is what they are advertising) in 1947.
Our house is built in 1948. So the newspapers are from when the house was built.
Needles to say that I’m keeping those. I’ve already talked to a friend who works with things like this and he has given me tips on how to preserve and keep them on the brick block.
I know I’m extremely excited, I absolutely love things like this.
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I would be excited too…what a cool piece of history right in your bedroom.
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When we moved in to our house 3 years ago (build in 1963 if I remember good) we found this piece of art in the kitchen, I was also super excited
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Checking in today, really tired. The smoky skies have cleared but it has taken its toll and I’m still coughing up a storm. I do feel accomplished, though. I’ve been working on cleaning out our old place and that’s wrapped up! I did okay while my husband was on a work trip for a week, and in the past, time alone has been difficult for me. It used to be a free pass to drink as much as I wanted, which seems like ages ago, but I still keep an eye on how I’m doing when he’s gone because I can get depressive feelings as well. I kept busy and took okay care of myself, so that’s a win. So this Monday has me feeling pretty good and also in a contemplating mood.
I’ve had some conversations with friends lately about our beliefs, or lack thereof, in a god or how to define the idea of a higher power. I cannot reconcile that there is anything that qualifies as a “higher power” for myself, though I know others have been able to without it being a god figure. These thoughts are in the front of my mind after reading through TS lately and I know I am not the only one who feels this way, so I’d like to share my thoughts.
The community on TS is quite diverse, I think, and people’s perspectives are valid and welcome but some are not heard as often. I love the idea that the opposite of addiction is connection, and this is not just connection to people, to community, but also to peers who have shared experience, which is why we are all here, seeking and giving support for sobriety. The Talking Sober community has been the single most important part of my recovery, but it is certainly not the only tool I’ve used. I read a lot about recovery and wellness, especially self help type books, I journal every day including a daily gratitude journaling practice, and I try my best to take care of my body and mind. I’ve gone to therapy in the past, also. When I’m having trouble with my mental health I use grounding exercises, talk with my family and friends, and use meditation apps on my phone.
I believe connection also ties into connection to my physical community, finding ways of being of service, connection to the land and environment, to our earth and so on. It’s why I love to grow things, get my hands in the earth, plant things the pollinators love and get out in nature when I can. All of these connections mean something to me. I am grateful for all of them. And that’s my version of a way to a secular, personal style of recovery that works for me. Thanks, friends, for reading.
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Thank you for sharing this with us. 
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I love this! I wasn’t brought up in any church but my Mexican mother was raised Catholic also and there is a lot of generational “stuff” going on with her upbringing. We both love growing things and find a lot of peace and connection in doing so, I’m grateful for that. And grateful for you, too. Glad my post resonated for you.
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Thanks, friend. 
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Day 54. Exhausted from leg day, had a good group session today. Feeling excited otherwise. Going to go over and try to fix a tattoo for someone later today, hopefully I’ll do well. Much love
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@Sissychris39 all my support and love!!! And prayers tooo:pray:t4:
I understand how great the anxiety can be but you deserve peace and love .
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Thank you so much! I’m doing much better, thank you 
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71 days today. I went out for lunch at the pub yesterday. I was quite happy having a zero alcohol beer followed by a cola. I’m also feeling comfortable telling people I’m not drinking. Wishing everyone a happy Monday 
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Day 3, 4th evening
Checking in sober.
After homeoffice I had appointment at the dentist and a swim.
I am sober. But sitting in the car I had these thoughts again crashing in. Very loud and seemed reliable! “you can have few glasses today, it’s totally fine” blah.
Sober at a sober home, 9 pm, won’t leave the house again. But will this last.
Love 
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Congratulations on your 1500 @Mno. Beautiful picture. So very very honored to be on this journey with you. Thank you for being you and sharing your strength and experience and perspective. Enjoy your mini vacation!!!
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Day 
I think after all it is good to have a healthy laugh a little bit. Yep here is a guy who speaks with the radio 
yeap that’s me
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These were exactly my thoughts when I first “tried” to get sober but didn’t have the tools to stop cravings. More often than not the intrusive thoughts won out and I would use. Took me a while to realize that I needed more than just white knuckling to stay sober. After I got out of my third rehab I dedicated myself to AA and have been sober ever since. I was able to completely silence that voice and it’s stayed silent for more than a few years now.
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Checking in
Day 519
Today was a very up and down day. But i feel proud of what i accomplished. I started my day with a workout at 530am. Did prayer and meditation by candlelight which was very nice. Ran an errand. Then did some cleaning at home before my dr appt over the phone. Now i am thoroughly enjoying the thunderstorm thats happening right now. Although i feel horrible for my husband bcuz he works outside. Overall though my day was pretty good. Some moments of stress and feeling overwhelmed but im managing it okay. Deep breathing helps alot. Only had 1 very small using thought today also when feeling stressed but got thru that. Not much else to say right now. Hope everyone is doing well!
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You guys are all so wonderful and supportive. I am grateful for everyone on here hearing my struggles and validating me as i walk this path.
Please know, even if i dont comment on your sharings, i am with you too 
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That’s amazing, did you guys keep it in someway?
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