Checking in daily to maintain focus #56

Well done. That is a big win! Stay vigilant today and the weekend is lurking. Do you have a plan to see you through the next few days?

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Day 8, super form yesterday. My anxiety is under control and I have no desire to drink. I have some mechanisms and they are effective so far.

Iā€™ve been thinking about how I coped on my last attempt and this time feels more robust. The weather in my part of the world is terrible at the minute itā€™s keeping me indoors and I think I need to make more of an effort to exercise, endorphins are very helpful for me. This weekend I will be more active and quell the overthinking using my TTools.Have a greyfay all, hereā€™s to another 24.

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This is a great point.

Every single time Iā€™ve relapsed (and there have been so many I definitely have enough data points to prove correlation) has come after Ive stopped interacting and being active in my sobriety.

I go X amount of time sober > convince myself cI wasnt that bad > get lazy with being active > becoming an alcoholic again within a week

Every. Damn. Time.

Thank you for the reminder today how important it is to stay active and open in my sobriety

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Starting day three without drinking. I feel much less anxious but the low grade headaches have started. Experience tells me I get to enjoy these for at least a week. :woozy_face:

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Thank you so much Anne :smiley:
Yeah thatā€™s it :rofl::tulip:

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Happy birthday and congratulations! You really deserve to feel proud of yourself today! Iā€™m so happy to see things clicking for you!

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#Day 1779 :walking_woman:
Day 4 of massive migraine :face_vomiting:
Worked for a few houres yesterday, but could not finish the whole day. Felt sorry for my co worker who has to run the shop all by herself.
Feeling a bit better than yesterday, havenā€™t taken a pill yet.
Just came here to vent about how misery I feel :face_with_peeking_eye:
Writing it down takes the edge off. Have the day off today so thatā€™s a good thing.
:raising_hand_woman:

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Checking in sober on 581 days. On my way for my appoinment with my psychologist.

Wish you all a good sober day.

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Day 40:)
Tired as work is busy.
Happy with day 40 tho. My partner is a bit annoyed with me as Iā€™m work focussed in the morning (i am paid to start at 8) whereas she is self employed and has more flexibility

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Need to get out walking again, not been for a week. I really struggle with the motivation even though I know it feels good afterwards. I have been trying to stop drinking for over 10 years at least. 165 days is the longest ever for me but since rehab, I feel I have more tools. Last night I just kept playing the tape forward. Just stay strong and one day at a time.

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Sober again!

Heading into Liverpool to see mum after Iā€™ve walked the dog. Life is ok, thanks. :slightly_smiling_face:

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Hi all, have reached day 11. Eating way tooo much, but proud as there have been a couple of occasions I could have drank this week and I didnā€™t. Teenage daughter making rum cocktails in the kitchen for her friends was a big one last night, didnā€™t reach out and pour a glass, just said no thanks. Head beginning to suggest one drink would be fine, but pushing back hard as itā€™s not. Hearing back from someone would really help me to keep strong today. Thank you community :heart_hands:

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Day 5 down :seedling::seedling::seedling::seedling::seedling:

Checking in sober :+1:

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Sorry to hear you feel so poorly, four day migraine must be really bringing you down. Do take something for it, otherwise you wonā€™t be able to enjoy your day off. I hope it works, and that you feel better soon :pray:

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Thank you, the downside of taking my migaine medication is that it makes me slow and sleepy.
But will take some Advil and maybe that will take the edge off :crossed_fingers:

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Day 115 checking in just starting to feel better from last week as I had flu took this week off work going to get back into a routine get back to work next week hope everyone is well

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Missing some 1000 days my friend :four_leaf_clover::roll_eyes:

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Ahhh I just stated the counter like this :rofl::tulip:
2 decimal places :nerd_face:

Day 5

Checkin in
Strong oat cure health :sweat_smile:
Will have a swim and yoga later

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Sorry to hear about the migraine. Mine seem to be increasing recently thanks to my new ā€œlife stageā€ :slightly_frowning_face: I also avoid the migraine tablets as hate the spaced out feeling they give me.

Hope you feel better soon.

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Iā€™m here, Iā€™m alive and Iā€™m sober.
Day 22.

We had a blast at the Pirate Theme park. I didnā€™t want to go homeā€¦

Weā€™re going to try and get tickets for Halloween at said theme park. But Iā€™m not sure I will be able to afford the tickets before they run out. But hopefully I will.
I cancelled our cruise to Finland with the hope of making it to Daftƶ/Daftƶland for Halloween.

There was also and amazing Shopping mall just at the Norwegian border we visited for the first time.
The toy store was amazing and had a lot of Captain Sabertooth merchandise that we usually canā€™t find in Sweden.

There was also a wonderful jewelry store where I was able to buy earrings for my 10 y/o that wasnā€™t girl earrings, hypo allergic and in gold. He was so happy.
And it was filled with small odd stores just like the malls here used to be.

I also found a lot gluten and dairy free groceries in the grocery stores, and bought a lot of exciting Norwegian food to take home,that I havenā€™t tried before.
Weā€™re definitely going back.

For some reason I volunteered to babysit my brothers kids today again. And I got a makeover by my 2 y/o niece. So now Iā€™m walking around with a crochet table cloth on my head for the rest of the day I guess :joy:

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