Checking in daily to maintain focus #63

This is brilliant news !!.
So proud of you and so happy things are going well :hugs:

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Little check in before bed!! Day has been good, appointment with Archieā€™s consultant regarding his CFS went well. Heā€™s going to stay on really limited school hours as he hasnā€™t progressed with recovering. Itā€™s complex for him as he has autism and hyper mobility too. Just grateful I can support him. Wrapped up my other sonā€™s birthday presents, heā€™s going to be 16 next!! Another lush walk with Rocky, whoā€™s currently snuggled next to me snoring his little arse off!! šŸ«¶šŸ¼ super tired so getting an earlish night. Love and serenity to you all :rose::v:

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@davina_davis Congrats on another milestone (big family get together sober). Wishing you luck with work and the new boss :pray:
@noshame Oh Matt ā€“ I do hope everything is ok with your wife and your baby. My heart and prayers with you all. :heart: :pray: :people_hugging: Thank you for the update friend. I do hope the baby and momma get some rest. :heart:
@iamthechange than you friend ā€“ you are most welcome. We help each other in this community ā€“ the support here is so incredible. :hugs:
@billy85 Appreciate you Billy! Doing well my friend. Grateful to be living a sober life and getting my health in order. ODAAT! Grateful you shared your amazing milestones with us :hugs:
@trixie1 whooo hoo! Way to go friend ā€“ flex those sober muscles! :muscle: Grateful you were able to enjoy a lovely weekend and remained sober!
@violagirl Nicely done with 40 days! Keep that streak alive :muscle:
@naomi So grateful that you are able to be there for your parents. So sorry for all the health issues friend. Sending you love and comfort :people_hugging:
@lotusflower wishing you luck with the union Des. :crossed_fingers:
@steve92 Congrats on your 2 weeks Steve! Keep this momentum going strong :muscle:
@clarity SO lovely to see you pop in today. Do you think taking the supplements after breakfast might help with the dreams? Your post was beautiful ā€“ grateful that you are doing so well and embracing your sobriety :people_hugging: 1291 days is flippin awesome :muscle: :clap:

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was a good day for me!! i work for an agency so work isnā€™t always consistent, but i got a call to do some work today and had a nice day. felt really productive.

Found out my friends who i cancelled on (because a sober movie night turned into drinking) have loads of alcohol and are buying drugs. so i feel really happy that i didnā€™t go, and knowing i wont wake up with a hangover makes me feel so good!

a positive day for me :slight_smile:

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Oh my what a day. Glad to check in here friends.

CPS wants to renag on their earlier offer, and to be honest I knew they were going to do this. They only said this infront of the judge who was hard on them, and now they are renaging support for made up reasons.

WHAT IS A SCAM THAT HAS BECOME NORMALIZED

CHILD WELFARE INSTITUTIONS.

I cannot focus my energy here now and have to prepare for the trial, but i am deeply disgusted by this system and a system that would remove a child from its family due to lack of support and resources, only to place them in care and give the foster family those resources. My family is fighting, but I dont know how im not going to end up bitter from all of this.

I am VERY grateful a dribk did not even cross my brain today. It was an hour long meeting wifh all these bombs beinf dropped on us and that is difficult. I took my daughter skating straight after and worked on my backwards skating. What else can I do? We must pace ourselves in this life but if i can be perfectly hobest this doesnt feel like my life it feels like a movie. It feels so elaborate it cannot possibly be real, and the emotions are so high they cannot possibly be mine.

Keep fighting for yourselves my friend xo.

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Wow this all sounds sooo fantastic! Im so glad things are falling into place for u :slight_smile:

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Im really proud of u for making that decision to not go. Ur not missing out on anything. Way to go!

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Checking in on day 969. Iā€™ve been trying to exercise regularly. Hit the treadmill and stationary bike today. Hope everyone is having a good start to the week.

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Back to work today after another sober vacation. Alcohol has no place in my life.

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That is the best we can do love ā€“ just keep pushing forward and doing what we can to keep stacking up the days. 40 AF days is amazing. I see you doing awesome with your timers and how you are dealing with all the lifey life stuff. You are not alone friend. Grateful to see you succeeding.
@rosacando so very sorry Rosa. Sorry that you are dealing with all this pain. Sending you healing energy and hope that you feel better soon :heart:
@mindofsobermike wow- this all sounds fantastic. So happy for you and this new chapter in your life!
@mbwoman wow friend ā€“ 35 months and going strongā€”this is an awesome milestone. Celebrating a sober vacation ā€“ how lovely :heart: :tada:
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Checking in Monday eveningā€¦
411 days free of alcohol and weed
826 days free of cigarettes
Grateful that I will keep my original surgery plan and surgery date. Had a very good consult with my surgeon. Had a fairly productive day with my mom. Glad to be home and resting nowā€¦ feeling exhausted and ready to sleep.
Wishing you all a wonderful addiction free evening / day ā€“ sending you all so much love :heart: :heart:

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Great news! Your healthy baby will be here before you know it!

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This is day 1. Iā€™m still a bit hungover and my 3 year old asked me why Iā€™m always sick. :confused: Wakeup call.
I canā€™t go to AA meetings because I donā€™t want her dad (my ex) to know how much I struggle. Heā€™s threatened to take her from me before and if I attended meetings, he would know Iā€™m an alcoholic. So I guess Iā€™ll try this app. Seems like the next best option. :slight_smile:

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Welcome to the community friend. Great work on your day 1! This is a very supportive and non-judgmental community. Do hope that you stay around.
Would you be able to do online meetings for AA or recovery? You can do them with the audio and / or the video turned off. Sometimes just listening is enough to help support you.

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I actually didnā€™t know they had online groups. I was in a psych hospital last year and Iā€™m surprised it wasnā€™t mentioned. They were handing out pamphlets with local AA groups.

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Oh that is strange that they would not mention.

I do know of an app called In The Rooms as one that offers on line meetings.

Not sure where you are from. Check google for online meetings. Some are available 24 hours a day.

Online meeting resources check out this thread for some other options as well.

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Checking in Day 27 sober.

Still feeling a bit emotional and raw but know the feelings will pass.
Had a pretty good work day, tried to get outside, connect with friends and family, eat well and decided to paint my nails with a new gel set I got. Always feel a bit better after some self care. Watching a movie from 1990 ( when I was born) called The Long Walk Home. Trying to expand my knowledge on things I find Iā€™m a bit ignorant towards. Still here, still sober, for better or worse. Hope everyone else here is finding their inner strength to stay on the path that suits them :pray:t3::bouquet::two_hearts:

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There is also an app that is full of AA speaker tapes that are prerecorded that are nice to losten to. Its called something like AA speaker tapes. Wishing you luck on your journey mama! Best decision xo.

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Thanks for the celebration @JazzyS!! Many positive things going on for youā€¦racking up sobriety numbers! Glad surgery plans are on track. Iā€™m glad you are here sharing with us!

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Good morning, day 36, stay strong everyone and have an awesome day

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Checking in before bed. I didnā€™t have the greatest day. Struggled with fatigue and pain, just couldnā€™t get it together. Maybe i did too much yesterday.
Got a few things done at work and made it through some appointments and meetings. Took a nap when i got home and spent the evening on the couch doing mostly nothing. Not the best day, but Iā€™m going to bed sober. Hopefully tomorrow is better.

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