Checking in daily to maintain focus #64

Stay safe! I grew up in snow country, but am far south now. I remember those Easter snows, and trying to find the eggs :slightly_smiling_face:

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OHHHHH this is fantastic news and what a relief :pray: Sending you warmth and cozy vibes ā€“ hope you are able to rest and enjoy the crime documentaries :heart: :hugs:

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She finally told me todayā€¦ she doesnā€™t want a relationship. And I can feel emotional sobriety coming over mez

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Day 283. Back at work today. Went OK. Something difficult to work on but thatā€™s ok
On call tomoro night but all good. Off on Friday :slight_smile: but again having to do bits for work (just 10-3)

Drinking cordial and soda water. Working well.

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Iā€™m born and raised here (well in the neighbor village) so Iā€™m used to it. We stock up on everything we might need for longer power outage, lack of water, lack of groceries in the store, and just about everything else.

Iā€™m not a huge snow fan,but I do remember even Walpurgisnacht or May 1st protests while snowing.

My 12 y/o loves snow, he is always warm so I guess itā€™s a relief from him when the weather is cold. To see his joy when itā€™s snowing is worth freezing for a few days :smiling_face:

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I hope it all turns out to the best for both of you.
Even if itā€™s hard to keep on like that, it can be hard to walk away as well.

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Yes! Iā€™m glad you can enjoy his smiles while you wait for spring! Iā€™m strange, I want to move to snow country again because I miss it! It happens here maybe once a year. But not too much snow. Just 4 distinct seasons.

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Iā€™m happy to have the closure. Itā€™s been a long arsed chase and all I wanted was decision. So Iā€™m happy I finally got it. Iā€™m not very happy that I had to be a bit of an arsehole to get itā€¦ but it got to the point where I felt like Iā€™d been taken advantage of so bad, I had to hold her accountable. The response I got was ā€œafter everything youā€™ve been saying I donā€™t really want to know anymore.ā€ So there we are

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Thank you Jaz! Iā€™m in a lot of pain, but Iā€™m so relieved!!

I hope youā€™re well x

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Hope youā€™re okay friend. Good to see you back :people_hugging:

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Bagged on Day 88

An hour and half in gym on weights, then an hour and half 6k hikeā€¦ up at 6am, for what reason?? Who knows, cause Iā€™m old I suppose.

Be well all,

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Hey all, evening check in, about to get 9 days. Was very grumpy so took myself off for a drive which I then realised wasnā€™t my best idea as the weather was terrible. Called in at the shops as my appetite is weird and didnā€™t want anything in the house. Bypassed the wine aisle completely. Now home and donā€™t have an appetite at all. Pjs and a candle on. So overstimulated so not going to be able to watch the Spurs game tonight.

I hope everyone is OK

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Day 600 over here! Very proud. @Caspio, I hope youā€™re right thereabouts too!
Thanks to all of you for being there through my journey. Definitely stronger together.

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Thanks. Iā€™m totally fine. Just transforming some negative energy into positive. Found a good oportunity to move from stagnant situation into more proactive one. I hope I am back to TS, as I was really loosing inspiration for the last month or more to post here, EVEN - when I knew that it helps me I was totally out of Focus. I had my Focus around different shapes of life, and the situation changed. How it changed? Depends / on / where / I will / spend / this / energy. Hope to use this inertia to the Right direction.

Charged :zap:

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Hope to see more of you around here :hugs:

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Iā€™m so behind on this thread! I shall have to just continue on from here. It is nice to see everyone popping in though! Itā€™s also heartwarming that we can come here and know someone is going to respond when we need a hug, a word of condolence or support or a cheer of celebration. I love this community for that very reason - we are never alone.

I was a grumpy gal last night and realized I was feeling the sinus pressure from impending weather. Took some medicine, my husband fixed me a plate of food after I said I wasnā€™t hungry and I gobbled it up, then fell asleep on the couch and he had a hard time getting me to bed! But I woke up feeling in better spirits and had a really good day at work. Today was one of those days where I felt on top of things, organized in my thoughts and taking care of business as needed. Tomorrow Iā€™m cleaning the apartment my boss owns thatā€™s upstairs, actually I think there are two that need cleaning, and Iā€™m looking forward to that kind of tangible task that has a solid result, a rental unit ready to show and re-rent. Theyā€™re such cute furnished studios with a loft in each one and a murphy bed in the main space, lovely decor. I would have loved to live there as a college student or when I was still singleā€¦a lifetime ago. Iā€™ll crank some tunes and enjoy the task. It will still be snowing, most likely, and the view out the window over the downtown of my old river town is lovely. For now, Iā€™m enjoying the snow globe effect out my window and dreaming up my dinner plans for tonight.

Sending my best wishes and sober strength to all, as usual. :heartpulse:

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Iā€™d send a like but I ran out of likes to give, yes mā€™am we are on that sober train!!! :saluting_face: :smiley:

I realize some days will be tougher than other days, but anything is better than using!! Using drugs/alcohol is when every day becomes a shit day!!! :smiley: :fax: :100: :100:

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Checking in on day 520

Keep on keepinā€™ on everyone.

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At least you can move on.
Enough is enough, and your own peace should be the most important one.

Thereā€™s a saying that goes ā€œNo matter what you do, you will always be the villain in someoneā€™s storyā€

I think of that a lot, especially during the times when you need to be very direct to someone.

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Thanks so much for helping me out yesterday. I truly appreciate it! :slight_smile:

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