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ā¦ alrightā¦fudge itā¦Iām on the next plane 
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Thank you, my friend! Sorry to hear your migrane is back. But Iām glad that your spirit is strong! Inspiring!
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My new gadget, cold plunge tub 
Filling it up with water, for kids is super interesting as you can see
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Iāll be here with both of them waiting you at the airport
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Day 434.all good. Nice day. Bought some. Sour dough bread, cakes etc. And spent 20 pounds
I remember when bread was cheap 
Relaxin and watching despicable me four
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Checking in day 243 AF 
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Checking in! 
Not much to report from my side! Another day off, holidays are a nice thing to have! This morning I went to the market and got a new basil plant! 
I also had some breakfast there. In the afternoon some pool time where I chatted with some people I know. While walking to the market I met a girl I hadnāt seen in over a year. I said if sheād want to catch up some time, go for dinner (like we used to do 3-4 years ago), she didnāt seem to enthusiastic, but at least I popped the question! Another little step out of my comfort zone (I usually wouldnāt ask, cause Iām afraid of rejection). In the afternoon I took my 82 year old neighbor to the town center in my car, there was a dinner and dancing going on. Sheās asked me if Iām not doing anything, well noā¦ not tonight! I hope she enjoys herself!
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Day 1351,
Somehow people still perceive me as fearless, they donāt understand thatās because hell became a walk in the park for me. I can support other people, but still seem to be unable to find someone who can support me back in real life. Gonna try to get some sleepā¦f*ck my father who dares to say I raised myselfā¦and the rest of my familyā¦.my girlfriend likes the way I hug, like my sponsor says āby following the program you become the man you missedā. So supportive as my hugs areā¦ gonna stop or Iāll keep on rambling .#lonely#is this it#no cravings just tired 
This me and my mom at lunch this week. Another attempt to get a connection with her. It is not a bad person. She wasnāt able to protect me against my father and brother. She still says your brother is who he is, while I told her what he did to me. I pointed out for years why she lets my brother treat her like he did and still does. She sees it as normal, I need therapists to tell how he behaves and as a respons they validate me that is not normal. Bizar. I tried to save her, but I more and more realize she is trauma bonded to both of them.
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Star date log #239 AF
#sobersaturday #stayingin #goodday #soberliving
#normalizesobriety #oceanliving
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Checking in 12 days sober
@Zse cookies look incredible!
@Timetochange - is despicable me 4 worth a watch?
@JazzyS sorry about your migraine, hope it clears quickly, they really are rotten
@Olivia I like your memeā¦ this is part of the reason I want to stay sober, I want to be a positive influence ā¦ all the time, not just part of the time
There are some fantastic numbers here- itās impressive. Great work sober people!
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Youāre a vegan, thatās wonderful.
Iāve got friends saying that Finland is really good at non dairy products.
Here weāre starting to get more and more from Oddly good. I love them because theyāre oat based, and Iām allergic to both milk protein and soy (and Iām celiac) so Iām grateful.
If that friend keeps insulting you, maybe you should consider either telling that friend to stop, or just phase he/she out in a subtile way. Personally Iām not good at the subtitle thing myself. Iām more the āIām sorry youāre an Idiotā type. 
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Thanks. I used to watch DBZ (spanish dub) religiously back in 5th/6th grade. I would buy blank video cassettes at a store called Pic N Save with my bday money and record all the episodes on our VCR. Anyway, one day, my drunken dad threw them all away. 
. Smfh. He threw away all the classics. Beauty and the Beast, The Land Before Time, Casper, etc. He even threw away my eldest sisterās quinceƱera video. Dude was a piece of work.
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Yeah, we have lots of vegan options in here. And I love Oddly products, especially the barista milk for my coffee (yeah, I tried to quit drinking coffee, but here I am, haha). Iām glad that you also find those oat products suitable for you, yay!
And yes, Iām just gonna ignore him, I donāt need drama in my life. I wish I was more like you, to be able to tell him to piss off.
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544 
Today, on the last day of August 2024, I watched my first Christmas movie of the season!
I even made cinnamon hot chocolate to compliment the mood 
I am not ashamed
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Love that.
Weāve had plenty of hot chocolate here already. It goes for all seasons.
Iāve already started to plan Christmas gifts, and getting a bit into Christmas mode as well.
But first, all things Halloween 
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Itās a skill that takes time to master
Honestly itās rare that I tell people to go someplace warmer (and I donāt mean on vacation)
Most of the time I simply say I had enough of their crap/ wonāt tolerate that behavior or something similar. And after that I just donāt talk to them ever again. Because itās not worth it, itās not worth the energy it takes, and Iām not going to compromise my peace.
Ma is an exception,I canāt do anything about her
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Sounds like a good tactic!
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Day 7. today had been a hard day. I had a problem with a coworker and I want to cry because the tension. He doesnāt want to speak with me and that attitude makes me suffer. well. thank you God because I am sober and I didnāt choose the selfish way to deal with problems
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thank you dear @acromouse good to hear that your daughterās migraine lessened. Migraines are pretty awful 
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