Checking in daily to maintain focus #69

thank you so much my friend, your support and understanding means a lot! i stay on here for hours at a time it feels haha, but it’s good to know that i’m welcome here and have yall :] ! i love seein all the love spread here, so thank you again for being here and supporting us all <3 i wish you the best and hope you’re well!

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I’ve run outta hearts. You are most welcome and yes - please stay here with us – read and connect with us - we are all in the same boat and know the struggle so can be each other’s champions

So grateful that you found the Gratitude thread as well - that one is my favorite for sure. We can really change our mindset with practicing gratefulness each day :hugs:

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hi friend, thank you so much for your support and understanding :] ! it feels good knowing people care, and it feels good caring about others again. i hope you’re well, my friend, be good to yourself today <3

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Congratulations lady!! :confetti_ball::tada:

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Checking in! :wave:t2:
Today has been my last day of holidays, tomorrow I’m back at the office! I always enjoy holidays, but without work, I wouldn’t enjoy holidays that much, so going back is just fine! I’m dreading my inbox… but I’ll get that sorted little by little!
The last two days I haven’t done too many things, just the usual stuff; going for my daily walk, listen to audiobooks while cleaning (I really enjoy that! I must be weird!), preparing tuppers for the upcoming week bla bla. All over it’s been a good week, with nice weather! Tomorrow back to my routine! :muscle:t2:
Peanut, aka Mr. P. Has been accepted by Moka, that’s another step forward!

As of tomorrow they stay alone all day long, so they better get along well! :sweat_smile:

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216 days AF
Checking in sober and keep on going!

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Checking in , i think i missed yesterday. Had the day off and to myself. I got a lot accomplished. I took a drive down the valley to the Amish community. Hit some produce stands, small shops and discount grocery store. Stopped by a shoe store to look at some sandals. I was there a few weeks ago and couldn’t decide between two pair and they were getting ready to close, so i just left. Today, both pair were 50 percent off, so i got both!! That worked out nicely. I cleaned out my car, vacuumed, washed and waxed it when i got home. I also started packing and organizing things for vacation and finished up some laundry. It’s been a very productive day. I was just thinking that when i was drinking, a holiday weekend would have been so much different. I would have started drinking Friday after work and been an absolute mess by Monday. I wouldn’t have accomplished anything and would have been sick and hungover for work Tuesday. So glad that’s not my life anymore. Hope everyone is having a great sober day. Gonna fire up the grill and cook some burgers

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Checking in on day 456 AFAF.
The weather forecast was dreadful today so I decided to cancel my morning yoga session and climb back into bed after I’d got the kids out to school. It felt so nice listening to the rain outside as I dozed.
I did a tiny bit of tidying today but really I’ve just taken it easy. I didn’t sleep especially well last night, waking after a nightmare at 4am, so I plan to take my meds that help me to sleep tonight.
The forecast is for dry weather tomorrow so I may take my art materials out for some sketching.
ODAAT

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@JazzyS what a great phrase is “is ok not being ok” thank you!:smiling_face_with_three_hearts::smiling_face_with_three_hearts::smiling_face_with_three_hearts::smiling_face_with_three_hearts:
Also I read this today and encouraged me
"God gave you a gift of 86,400 seconds today. Have you used one to say ‘thank you’?”

—William Arthur Ward

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Checking in day 245 AF :blush:

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Thank you so much :heart: xxx

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Today was a really good day. As I mentioned in previous posts the sober living house I stay at has transition apartments across the street and once you move up the list, current on rent, and have a sponsor your eligible to move over there. Well it happened today!! Someone recently moved out and the house manager asked me to help clean and clear out the apartment so I did and once I finished he came back with the key and said move in it’s all yours not even realizing or getting my hopes up that I was cleaning my new apartment. It doesn’t seem real and I haven’t had my own place in 4 years. Been in and out of hospitals, detox , and homeless lost in my addiction. I guess the hard work is paying off and just because this happened doesn’t mean I let my guard down… it means I work harder and show gratitude to the people who have helped me. Went to the store to load my fridge and get a few things and was able to pay for my everything myself which is a first. And it was cool to have my parents come over to see the place. I still have a lot of work to do but not everything has to get done today. Just relaxing now and reflecting on my progress. Going to hit a meeting in a couple hours then get ready for work tomorrow. Today was good. Today was good because I’m sober. The only way is forward. One day at a time.



It’s not the greatest place in the world but it’s mine. And I’m very grateful

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Your garden and view! :star_struck:

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Checking in Day97. So I didn’t leave Saturday & head to Texas.I hate to admit it but I just wasn’t mentally ready like I thought. I pushed my plans back but I know I can’t continue to run from this. Right now my desire to leave is less than my fear of the change. I have to shake this off and get it together. Idk. . .Just ODAAT that’s all I can say. Hope all is well with everyone.

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Congratulations on your new home! :partying_face:

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Thank you :sunglasses:

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Day 932
I really had such a nice day with the family today. We went to the zoo and spent about 4-5 hours there. Got in over 5000 steps while we looked at all the animals. We even went on the zoo train twice as well as took a ride around the carousel twice. The weather was quite warm tho. Im a bit burnt. I put sunscreen on my son but not myself lol wasnt thinking of course. Came home around 230/3pm. Then hubbt dyed my hair for me. I dyed it a dark brown. Looks nice :slight_smile: School is back tmrw for my son which means back to the gym for me and back to routine! Hope everyone is doing well :butterfly:

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Going to my 3rd in person AA meeting tonight. Nerves

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Congrats on the apartment, bro. I’m happy for ya.

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Thanks man!! Very grateful and looking at this as a opportunity to keep moving forward with my life.

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