Checking in daily to maintain focus #71

Well done. What an amazing milestone. I hope you have a nice celebration. :clap:t2:

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35 days

Travels are going well. Hope everyone has a great sober weekend.

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Congrats!!! Such an amazing achievement!

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219 days sober
Today has still had a holiday feel. I had an early morning doing chores and cleaning. Then in the afternoon I was needed to translate for some tourists who came through. They wanted to learn more about the history and culture of here.


Today one of the tourists asked me how I learned such good Englishā€‹:joy::rofl: I had a good laugh and told that Iā€™m an American and English is my native language but I was flattered to be mistaken for a local. This was several hours into our time together so I felt encouraged at how much Iā€™ve adapted.

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@lighter hope you got some decent sleep last night :pray: Glad you are enjoying your job and working on finding that balance to not overwork yourself. Painting birds sounds lovely and relaxing. :heart:
@chance Great to see you checking in and with such a beautiful message / post! Great work on all your day ones stacked up :muscle: Thank you for leading the way!
@juli1 WAY TO GO! Glad you were able to get out of your comfort zone and get to the gym ā€“ great that you enjoyed your experience! Love seeing you thrive in sobriety Jules ā€“ you are crushing it :muscle:
@just_laura That is interesting and thanks for sharing. Some days the less sleep is great and others not so much ā€¦ always a balancing act LOL ā€“ no way is it anything as bad as when I was actively drinking
@butterflymoonwoman WOOHOO! You kickass woman you ā€“ great work on your quadruple digits 200w (2)Dana. You should be super proud of yourself and celebrate your amazing achievement :tada: Excited to see what the surprise is :wink:
@mxelle
:cry: Iā€™m sorry that you are feeling such despair. We are here for you my friend. :hugs: YOU ARE NOT ALONE!
hands-reach-out Reach out at any time :pray: The weekends are rough when we have more idle time. Are you able to fill your day with ā€œkeeping busyā€ activities? Can you shower yourself with some self care and love today?

Checking in on Saturday morning - I have deliberately put my bedding into the wash so that I have to move about. Today is not an easy start but Iā€™m determined to make the most of it.

Wishing everyone a wonderful addiction free day - sending you all so much love! :heart: :heart:

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Checking in. Nearly at the end of day 2. I will not drink today.

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Checking in. My friend sends me stupid messages while heā€™s drinking. Letā€™s see if heā€™s so keen to send me messages tomorrow morning.

This day has been a good day. No cravings. Iā€™ve been reading and watching tv series. Just chilling.

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Ahhh congratulations!!! Iā€™m so proud of you :partying_face: :heart: :clap:

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Checking in after several days off of here. I am very sad and depressed, but I had a good therapy session yesterday and am 3 days back on my supplemental antidepressant that had lapsed. So itā€™s just a matter of time until I feel better. Meanwhile I am taking tiny consistent steps in the direction I need to go to get things done for work and at home so that is good. Iā€™ve agreed to part ways with a consulting job that was too much for the amount of free time that I have to work on it, so that is also good. I worked a lot in therapy yesterday on negative self talk and that needs to be a no-go zone for me. Hope everyone has a beautiful and sober day today. :heart:

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Great to see you checking in! Love the attitude and letā€™s keep it going :muscle:t4::tada: day 2 :white_check_mark:

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Congratulations on joining the 1000 days club. Woohoo!! Proud of you, thatā€™s some awesome sobriety. :tada::tada:

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Day 16. Heading out for the night as designated driver which Iā€™m happy with.

My wife asked me if I would be drinking tomorrow when we have friends over and was pleasantly surprised when I said that I would not.

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Huge congratulations, Dana. Quadruplets :sunflower::smiling_face: so many days. I donā€™t know why but I still remember you being triggered biweekly on payday. Look how far you have come. I hope you have a good day with your family later.

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Congratulations Dana!! Youā€™re such an inspiration, and Iā€™m so happy for you and your progress!! :partying_face::clap:t2:

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Checking in! :wave:t2:
Today I had a productive work day, but I ā€œclosed the chiringuitoā€ at 2:30 pm, and decided to recover some extra hours!
Iā€™ve just finished a workout and took a shower! Despite that weā€™re in November already, Iā€™ve sweated my butt off! :rofl: All over feeling very calm. My weekend starts here! :partying_face:

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@kareness Sorry that you are feeling so low. Glad you had a good therapy session :pray: Hope the meds start working for you soon and you are feeling better soon.

Oh that is a lovely answer and mindset! 16 days and counting James :muscle:

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Keep up the great work! Keep checking in. Just know sober living is the best way to live!!!

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Day 253

Checking in on a sunny Saturday afternoon. Did therapy this morning and will relax this afternoon and try to enjoy Fall while it lasts. :heart:

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This brought back a memory, thank you. I purchased this pink stretchy bracelet and every time something I said was negative you had to switch to the other wrist. It really sounds stupid but being aware of every word out of your mouth is a good thing. I think my record was 4 days without switching wrists. No complaining is a super challenge. Since AA and sobriety teaches you to accept events as they are challenge may not be as difficult. I hate when I am bitching because I am aware of the negativity I produce. I donā€™t want that. Positive Polly thatā€™s me.

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I just love your post. Yes I want what you have. Hey new folks I know we say one day at a time but you can hope and work hard for a sober future. I want 9 months (I get to be in Hawaii for that) I want a year sober and canā€™t wait to share with you all here. I want a thousand days! I can do it and so can you. No shit it takes work, probably the hardest work I have ever done but the rewards are real and happening every day.

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