Checking in daily to maintain focus #9

Day 243 checking in. Have a great Sunday everyone :sparkling_heart:

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This is an incredible response, thank you @AyBee

@Nvbookthief congratulations on 80 days…

Checking in on day 41

Holybaloney we have blue sky in UK so a walk with the dog is planned this morning.

Catching up on posts some really positive numbers and post. Have a great day everone keep strong :pray:

:innocent::fist_left:

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I totally missed this Joost, just sending you a big hug friend :heart::heart::heart: I’ve lost my mom too almost 16 years ago. My dad is still alive but cut his kids out of his “new” life with his second wife. So I feel you :pensive:

Congratulations @beaniebun, 60 days rocks! :confetti_ball:

Congratulations to you too @MrCade! 16 months in your pocket sir! Kaboom! :boom:

Gefeliciteerd medelander @Dutchie! :confetti_ball::confetti_ball::confetti_ball:
Stay focussed and keep doing what you are doing because you are doing great!! :facepunch:

Day 531 :coffee:
Looking forward to a chill day with my family. Started my day with coffee, TS and a long bath :grin: Had a great day yesterday with a friend. Went to the cinema and talked about life during an excelent high tea!
#soberweekendsarethebest

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@Preston_Cooley here!

Day one, almost done :smile:

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This is really good advice. :slight_smile:

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@SoberWalker I salute you for your days, sounds a perfect Sunday :slight_smile: And as for the high tea how scrummy. I am actually loving a sober weekend. Get jobs done and without the massive effort whilst drinking, time for me and my friends. Enjoy your day

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Thank you!
Enjoy yours too Marie! :heart:
Sober life isn’t always easy but It’s much better than that drinking one :hugs::confetti_ball::confetti_ball::confetti_ball:

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Welcome here, stick around it helps!! 🙋
What’s your addiction if I may ask?

Welcome at forums and good job! :blush: First step is most important when you want to move forward :wink:

Day 1…checking in friends😊

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Sorry to hear Bob, but glad you are still here! How comes?

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Oh Lea, this is a lot. :hugs:
100% be selfish. Only you know what you need to heal right now. Your foot has to be devastating as well. Exercise is my healthy outlet right now and I found myself drawn to running myself. My mind just goes somewhere and I envision goals. I don’t know what outside influencers are making you feel this way, but it’s not good. Can you take a temporary, or if necessary, permanent step back?

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Day 243 alcohol free! Sober life = best life.

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Welcome @Votubia! Congrats on your first day, and glad you’re here :hugs:

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@Jane.c I too struggle with depression. I have been on and off meds for a couple years. I finally decided meds were not the right choice for me right now because they interfere with my sleep and then the meds to help me sleep made me feel groggy and useless all day. Instead, I’m choosing exercise, healthy eating, and trying to take care of myself. Working towards a goal is also good. Whatever that goal may be, as long as I bv have something to work towards, I feel motivated to keep going.

hugs as you stay on your journey. Be easy with yourself.

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Feeling a good deal better today. A rough few weeks of negative self talk, mix in a little work stress, divorce stress, rejection, loneliness, PTSD treatment, loss of desire to be sober, and crap I can’t even remember, and the perfect storm was created.

BUT, I came here, maybe posted a bit too much, but I needed it. I have never survived that place before. In the past I would have 100% drank like a “lady” on my lunch date and then would have bought alcohol on the way home, and spiraled 24/7 for I don’t know how many weeks straight. I don’t have another withdrawal in me. I don’t think I could do it again. It takes me weeks to even get steady on my feet.

Grateful for all of you. I’m not out if the woods yet, but are we ever really out of the woods completely? I say no. We are only a tiny drink away from disaster and that fact needs respect.

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Checking in on day one. Been good recently but the drink got the better of me last night. No point beating myself up over it what’s done is done. Moving on to a better future.

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