Conglomerated List of "Things that can F*ck right off* (Part 1)

When you trust in someone and then you realise you are falling into nothing.

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Weight gain and doubting the process fro

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That you keep making yourself available for love is inspiring.

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Thank you Dan. (or are you being ironic?) Sometimes I’m not so sure. Whether it’s in fact good or if I will even be able to still do it. But it’s also the only way I know and I do want to love.

Still processing the same monstrous and some smaller heartbreaks. Not jumping around. Just been a lot of betrayal. Partners friends lovers “sober” ppl.
Learning Why I love with such abandon and being hit w a lot of pain when the bill comes, cos it does come, has been a real bitch of a school mistress. But still here. And still loving. :broken_heart::boar:

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No irony at all - you are so much more courageous than I ever was with heartbreak. Courage is based on faith that things are going to be ok, so that is strong in you as well!

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at least on a conscious level, I gotta say I don’t have that faith going on for me, I feel quite desperate a lot (tho much less than in the past). but I can see how from a more abstracted view, love itself is a force of positivity and possibility and I am clinging fast to that. love might well be more important to me than for some others.
thank you for saying these nice things about me. :purple_heart: :boar:

to stay on topic. FRO today can: the fear of financial ruin and actual financial ruin.

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That’s why we point it out for you - others can see clearly what we cannot see in ourselves.

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Coming here 91 of 92 days in the past 3 months and still losing regular status… FRO

Also being petty can FRO… but whatever

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that does not make sense and most def not right.
I wonder if you can write to the mods to look into it - it may be a glitch in the software.

grown ass men acting like immature asses can FRO

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@HoofHearted @JazzyS Sorry that happened, Dan. I wish just showing up daily was all it took.
Just an FYI about trust levels and how to maintain regular status:
Discourse Trust Levels

See also:

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Busy days that end up feeling like I couldn’t cross anything off my to-do list can FRO! At least the day isn’t over yet, but the hours are clicking by…:grimacing:

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Thanks Rosa !
This was helpful in understanding the different trust levels and maintenance levels.

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Guy playing games and it’s feeling like taking parts of my heart out of me.
FRO.
This shitty feeling.

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Fuck that guy. You deserve someone who likes you back and who likes you for you. Wave to him as you cruise on by on your way to better people. Sending hugs though, heart stuff stinks. :mending_heart::heart:

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That’s what I realy needed.
Got tears in my eyes right now…
Just because you are so fucking right!
:broken_heart::heart:

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I don’t know much about you but I do know that you are a good kind soul who is struggling to make their life better. If he isn’t going to mirror or help you with those things, good riddance. :clap:t3::muscle:t3:

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This gnarly allergy/sinus headache I can’t seem to shake. It’s messing up my day off today!

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Leadership taking on more risk than they can handle

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And of course, the burden falls on the workers!

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I go with the heartbreak shit. This crap still coming in waves can FRO. I’m tired of feeling the same senseless shit over and over again.
And me being impatient and not kind to myself to shoo this feelings can FRO too.
Lack of motivation to clean the messy livingroom can FRO too.
Me feeling like an idiot typing this can FRO. It helps!

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