Mine too! I really took the time to give myself a full manicure the other day bc those suckers were getting thick, and I started trimming off the excess but didn’t realize how difficult that would be for my non dominant hand 
Feeling a little uneven over here 
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I hope you didn’t do it with your teeth like stupid me… 
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Ha! I feel that. Not a chef, but server/bartender. Tuesday night, when it was dreadfully hot, it was so dead the boss decided we could close early (7:30 instead of 9). She posted it at 7 and left me alone with the sous chef. Guess who got 2 customers at 7:27?!
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Hahaha! No, not anymore. I used to bite my cuticles to shreds but I learned if I keep them polished I won’t do it. Same reason I wear makeup…bc it stops me from picking at my face.
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Yeah I need to learn. Part of my OCD (or whatever the fuck I have) is obsessive hair pulling and skin messing. I’ve really got to get the obsessiveness under control as scars and pain is not what I’m aiming for… I’ve had it since childhood, my nails are really sore.
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heartbreakng!! its like,why me ??? hahaha
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mine too!! 
ive got a song for you !! the reason i found this was because of its name 
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Now I cant get it out my head 
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Hahahaha,its great isnt it
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THE SUMMER HEAT!! 
A hiatus from my hoodie,
and a fond farewell to flannel. 
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Summer can FRO! 
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People that can’t or refuse to read a clock can FRO.
I was informed of this new bullshit that people are doing called being time blind. That can fuck right off too. I guess I’m time sensitive because I value my time and the time of others, especially in a professional setting.
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Summer and summer bullshit weather & heat can FRO 
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Or, as a wife you could understand that us men are very straightforward and matter of fact. Why should we pursue you as a girlfriend when our perceived inattentiveness is actually a strong sign of how happy and content we are. 
Unrelated note, lawyers can FRO
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Maybe he is happy and content. But he doesn’t seem to care that I am not. That was kinda the point.
Also depressing how long ago that post was and how nothing has changed.
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Hmmm. I would ask…with respect…if it’s his responsibility to ensure your happiness? Isn’t that our own responsibility?
Men aren’t mind readers, Expecting a man to magically anticipate your needs is a recipe for disappointment. BUT you can tell if he cares about you by doing the following experiment:
Ask him to do something for you. Like cook for you. Chores around the house. Look after the kids while you go out with your friends, etc.
A) If he says, “Sure thing honey. No problem.” and says it with a smile on his face, then you have a keeper.
B) If he says. “Do it yourself” with a shitty attitiude, then you can draw your own conclusions.
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I agree it is not his responsibility to make me happy. Filling my own cup is something I really struggle with, and am working on.
But you are assuming I haven’t talked to him about this before. I have many times, to the point he now just won’t listen and complains about me saying the same thing. Which I understand, I am tired of saying the same thing also.
And while it is not his responsibility to make me happy, I do expect my partner to seem interested in what I am thinking and feeling.
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Nothing wrong with you wanting to share mutual respect with your partner instead of it being one way 
A balance.
Big hugs Flo 
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At this point I will gracefully bow out of the couples counselling business, but I do hope your sobriety remains intact no matter what!!
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OK, here’s one: people who use guilt as a means of manipulating you. I really hate that crap!
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