People who cut in line, blow through red lights, turn in front of pedestrians before they can get across the street. Basically anybody that thinks they’re more important than everyone else.
That’s exactly right
My bosses not doing anything to fix the non-functioning backup cameras in our trucks. What’s the point in having these things if they don’t work?
Having to rely on people to spot me when I back up to the dock, but they don’t know how to do that (i.e., using confusing signals, or just standing there watching, or not standing where I can see them in my mirror). Infuriating!!!
The neighborhood diesel station that was closed for weeks to install brand new pumps, and now they don’t work most of the time. Come on…really?
Low self esteem and insecurity.
Why can’t I even take a compliment like a normal person? I got some about how often and how fast I run and my reaction was obviously: thanks but nah, it’s just recently and usually I don’t run so often (its not true, I run quite often and pretty fast for a long time now).
Or when someone is asking how often I workout at home I always say sometimes, not that often. But I do it almost every day so why I can’t just say it? The same with yoga - “yeah, I’m just stretching from time to time, nothing serious”. It’s not true, I’m actually pretty good at it and I was even being instructor for a short while
I was participating in a race last Saturday and I met there some people from our village that’s why I have conversations about it lately.
Why I can’t be just proud of myself. Always downsizing. Fuck off my stupid self.
Well here’s your problem pal. You’ve got negative thoughts in your generator. Pretend I’m a mechanic as I say that.
Mischa you are pretty cool and I can see that from miles away. Liking yourself takes practice but it starts with how you talk to yourself. You are a badass Mama raising three total cuties, while juggling life and sobriety. Plus you run fast as fuck. Take the compliment, you deserve it. If no one has told you yet today you are doing GREAT! Hugs from one tricky brain to another. 🩷
In my own tricky brain guilt, shame, obligation and manipulation can all GTFO of my head today.
I am sorry your brain is this mean on you and I certainly recognize it. For me, what helps is to set small specific goals that even my self-depricating brain cannot argue with. In your case, could you maybe set a specific running goal that you know you can achieve and then take that as a win?
For me it’s learning that I actually did fucking good under the circumstances in learning to live my life as good as i can. These negative self depreciating never good enough stupid thoughts can fro. We’re worth it girl. And the world may know that and appreciate it too!
@TrustyBird @Mischa84
You are two great women
As I have nothing serious to complain about today, I want to say: You two are are heros of daily life. BASTA
Ah love that mind is such a shithole sometimes. You are amazing! I 2nd everything Emilie said.
Try posting some positive affirmations or qualities of yourself and repeat them to yourself daily – seeing and hearing them may help change up your mindset about yourself.
Big hugs love – hoping you are able to start seeing the wonderful superwoman that you are yourself
“I’m good enough,
I’m smart enough,
And, doggone it…people like me!” - Stuart Smalley
A bit offtopic but you people rock! I 100% wouldnt be where i am now without you. Thanks
@One4theroad exactly! I was biking to school around 17km last friday and after let say 13km I stopped feeling my fingertips.
I absolutely love dogs (and all pets, really)
Having said that: people that let their dogs poop on my lawn can FRO, I just mowed and stink of dog poo and that is NOT cool at all!
Some sorry SOB stole the memory card from my husband’s deer camera this weekend. They can FRO. The man work’s his @ss off 24/7 for our family and someone goes and steals his pleasure. That’s a load of .
Fake ass people can FRO along with the self centred and self serving.
Nightmares. One day this shit will kill me. I feel like crap and would be delighted if the persons wandering around in this nightmares would be tortured by this shit too. I would be even more delighted if my brain just slept without ambitions to be the next Quentin Tarrantino. And my soul just shut up, nobody needs this nightly drama.
Nightmares and being up way too early after another crappy night can fuck right off from the bottom of my heart!
I get up and have tea, thanks to Insight Timer the palpitation decreased.
FUCK
I don’t frequent them often…but WTF?!
Drive-thru attendant - “What can I get you?”
Me - “One cheesy gordita crunch, nacho fries, and an ice water.”
Drive-thru attendant - “Would you like any sauce with that?”
Me - “No.”
Opens bag and finds this inside (for 1 taco!)
Taco Bell’s over here just giving away stock, while McDonald’s across the street can FRO for charging $0.25 for every sauce packet!
Sleeping through your alarm can FRO!!!
I can even remember the last time I did this! It’s set for one hour before we leave for the bus stop. Plenty of time. I don’t even remember turning it off, but I must’ve or it would’ve kept going. Thank God I also set a 5 minute reminder just in case we lose track of time, or I fall back asleep on the couch(like my drinking days), bc that’s the one that woke me up! Not an ideal way to start the day