Thanks @Sunflower1
And thanks all you GDudes. I’m grateful for this thread.
I’m grateful for our dog walks.
I’m grateful I told my wife I FEEL sad she passed out drunk on the couch again.
I’m grateful I told my wife I FEEL angry she got drunk all 3 nights my daughter was here.
I’m grateful I told my wife I FEEL really nervous starting this conversation.
I’m grateful she said my feelings are valid. And she’s sorry and that all she can do is try and do better.
Kind of anticlimactic and no arguing drama.
And I felt better. Still do. 
So this is how it works.
I’m grateful I didn’t do the 40 minute dog walk with her, in my own silence, hurt, and mental anguish and resentment.
Fuck resentments!!
I’m grateful we could use the rest of our walk to plan our very busy week ahead.
So fucking grateful for this thread and you all.
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