100% agree. Also I’m a leg man so shorts on the sober leg selfies should be flagged. 
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My name and cleavage have never been used together, 
but I do like my shoulders!
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I totally get what you’re saying about girls pics that are showing quite a bit of cleavage wearing a thin strap shirt and a lot of legs lol. That’s ok but if a guy has a shirtless pic but only showing mid chest and up it gets flags and has to be taken off. I didn’t see what pic you posted but there has to be a better understanding on what is appropriate for all genders when it comes to selfies. Hope this doesn’t cause trouble just responding to a comment.
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It’s a tough one. I’m not that schooled on this sort of addiction but isn’t putting these strict rules on pics just completely shifting the blame? I don’t mean deliberately provocative pics but something completely innocent ? Not being a dick, generally interested in the topic
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I totally get that but as new people get on and get in a thread it doesn’t start from the beginning of the thread so some may not see that. And I agree full pics with no shirts on shouldn’t be posted. I was just putting in my two cents.
Cute top lol
Honestly it’s no big deal to me, but I know it can trigger others seeing beautiful women showing off cleavage, or hot guys showing off their figure. Cause there are good looking people in here. But I know we are all here to help everyone with all addictions stay sober at the end of the day.
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I agree and not trying to make it seem like I’m this douchebag. I was just making a point but won’t be breaking any rules cause the short time I’ve been on here I’ve seen a lot of kind people on here and wouldn’t want to get in trouble for things.
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Paul, 
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yeah right, Now!! you want topless
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Nope sorry I followed the rule and fixed it, don’t like it sorry. Nothing wrong with the picture in the first place
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Plus I did take into consideration and cropped it further then the original, it was my shoulders like stop crying about my shoulders when everyone’s hang out, god if I was wearing one of those shirts that girls wear that just cover girls boobs and let’s their shoulders hang out you wouldn’t even know. It’s seriously shoulders and dudes shoulders are hanging out on the sober selfies all day
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I see a lot of discussion around the topless rule today. Here’s a quote from Robin to consider when posting on this thread:
We’d like to keep our community and its topics presentable and civil. To that effect, we ask that members who post pictures of themselves do so with a shirt on. This is very similar to going out in town. You can certainly walk around at home without a shirt, but if you were going out for dinner at a restaurant without a shirt you wouldn’t be allowed to enter. This is to create a civil and presentable environment for the rest of the patrons.
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Then I vote no more cleavage or tank top pics you know because it’s just as triggering
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You don’t agree with this type of censorship/rule, so your solution is to have more censorship?
Try to find solutions for things you feel are unfair instead of just complaining about it. There’s lots of people on here that agree with the rule. We’re all just trying to make this a peaceful place.
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Oh yes I’m sorry lets keep the cleavage why did I ever think that was less peaceful. Fuck this place delete my account mods and plz don’t ask if I want to just do it
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Necessity is the mother of invention.
Nah dude some girls let them show more then mother Nature intended
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