Derailment void / Off topic 2021 to present

No. Just someone reading this topic and trying to keep it productive and helpful…

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This is topicstarters perception and feeling Ray.
Prople are allowed to have those. To have doubts and insecurities. And to verify them.
This topic is about someone’s needs and reacting in a defensive way doesn’t help.

I don’t even know what to say, but your sober time, visits to prison, and running meetings as you said, don’t match the way you talking to me… I don’t see no emphaty or desire to help me or get to know me, I just see you once again pounding your chest talking about your accomplishments🤷‍♂️

I would recommend everyone have a think about this before engaging further :sparkling_heart:

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I found the more I put into this site and made an effort to get to know ppl and forge connections, the more I began to get sth out of it. We are all real ppl on here, with lives and baggage. Not support automatons and empathy machines. No one is entitled to anything on here other than what the guidelines guarantee for all in terms of civility.

Become the person you want to meet.
Wish you the best on your journey.

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Gawd dayum girl what a response! Love it.

Edited to be less offensive

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I really like compliments beginning with “God damn girl”. they the best. you weren’t to know. so thank you kindly!
now I’ll get flagged for being “thirsty” again lol. worth it tho.

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Absolutely. @Faugxh I actually linked and sent your response to the mods.

So you may see that sentiment (or those exact words :see_no_evil:) used by us in future :laughing:

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I missed that flag, tell me more. Edited my post to be less offensive

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May i ask what TS is?

Talking sober. This application.

Ahhh (DOH) lol, thank you :laughing:

Or asking to verify a day count.

Can you reinstate my post and remove my flag? I seriously have problems with brushing my teeth daily. It screws with my self-image. They are almost see through. So I was hoping to get motivation from this thread whilst at the same time motivating others. I have been nothing but respectful towards @ThePower . And when everyone was bashing him I spent over 30 minutes writing a well thought out and respectful message.
To be honest, this hurts. Because my issue isn’t alcohol it’s trolling? I get how it could seem that way especially with all the bashing he has been receiving. But still, this hurts.

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It was off topic Jan. This thread is an alcohol challenge.

With all due respect Sas, but that’s a non sense remark.
This forum is about addictions and ways to deal with it, yet you remove Jan’s post simply because it’s misunderstood, to draw the “it’s offtopic” card when you get asked to rectify it ?

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I never told you I was glad you decided to come back to the forum did I?

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This is ridiculous. I want to say that I’m at a loss for words, but I’m not. I want to scream and curse at you. Rant about how absurd it is that I get excluded for having a different addiction.
But I’m crying right now. Something I haven’t done in months. So clearly there is something else bothering me, probably stress from work. So you wouldn’t deserve my rage. But this hurts. A lot.

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Probably because you weren’t :joy:

Starting to wonder why I came back though to the Talking Circus…

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I support you…i may have not interact with you a lot, but i am always rooting for you

I ALSO, support Sassys decsion. I will message you why…as I am about to lose cell service.

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