How and when can I join meetings on this site?

Welcome Crazymama it’s nice to meet you! There’s a good selection of meetings here, including Women for Sobriety:
Resources for our recovery

There’s some good online options here as well. There are a lot of different meetings, don’t be afraid to “shop around” until you find a group you connect with (there’s thousands of different AA meetings around the world; they all have a different vibe):
Online meeting resources

And we here on TS have meetings now and again too!
Zoom Meeting - Tuesdays and Saturdays

Take care & never stop searching for what you need. You’re a good person who deserves a safe, sober life where she can be her full self.

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