Hi all I recently got this app and committed to staying sober. I was thinking to go 1 year abstinant and then reevaluate at that point to see if there is any point attempting to drink again. I went 8 days and then drank again last Friday and again I drank last night. I am digging in here again today on day 1. No messing around this time. Going to stay sober and see if I can enjoy life better without needing alcohol. I’m thinking I will start hitting the gym more and get into learning something new to occupy my time. Any other suggestions from some of you more advanced people is much welcome. Thanks
Howdy!
I found journaling to be helpful early on. Documenting how I was feeling and my struggles helped not only get it out but also gave strength when I felt weak.
AA meetings are a good way to pass time and help others and yourself.
Another thing I did was to start change my relationship with alcohol, and honestly, this was key.
See if you can join some support groups maybe in your area. I have 5 years sobriety just from this app and 1 Monday meeting a week. I used to drown myself in this app for the first year of my sobriety. For me, i found it very helpful. I think it’s really all about staying busy, keeping your mind busy. Hobbies, work, etc… find a routine that works for you. I think the first year is the most challenging trying to figure out positive things to do with your time. But after that, it just gets easier. Maybe the gym…
For me having something to work on daily connected to my recovery, was key. Reading a chapter of quit lit, listening to a podcast, going to AA meeting, especially in the morning, to solidify my intention for the day.