Urgh. I’m really struggling with this atm… I know what it is (I think… ) but just need to talk it over with people who get it.
For a little while now I cant shake the feeling that everything is just flat, like I have nothing to look forward to and even when I DO make plans, well it just doesn’t cut it as far as how happy or excited it makes me feel. I keep making goals and achieving them, but everytime I get there it’s just this feeling of “meh, ok, now what?”. I wake up feeling empty and just like I’ve got nothing to get out of bed for. Like something is missing.
I’m thinking maybe because now I’m living a “clean” lifestyle which I’m not really used to (yet) so I’m not getting that buzz of looking forward to drinking? I stopped vaping which has been a vice for me for years (prior to that I was a smoker but changed for the vape) and other than that my life hasnt really changed. Which should be a good thing saying as how I have a nice life apart from the drinking which is now gone (6 months in) Its hard to explain but it’s just this constant feeling of flatness and like nothing lifts me up no matter what I do. And every thing i try doesn’t make any difference. I’m not going to drink because I know it wont change anything, but I guess that’s why I drank all along to get a break from this never ending feeling of nothingness. I feel like I should be doing something but idk what else, 12 steps maybe??
I’ve noticed I’m doing things like shopping more, so buying things for the house/decorating just soni can have that “ooh got something new!” Feeling but it lasts literally seconds so that’s a waste of time. I dont and wont do anything more extreme (although the thought of dating has entered my mind but I know that’s just for another distraction so isnt a good idea) so wtf am I supposed to do!? Just sit and feel like shit forever?
Just a side note, I DO have depression which I’m being medicated for so it could be that too.