To the few who believe this to be a sober tinder

[Englishd]

@Jake151022 this thread is a good one to read

[Girlinterrupted]

Thank you!! That’s very considerate

[Girlinterrupted]

I think you’re super sexy

[RosaCanDo]

Thank you, my dear I certainly feel sexy lol! And my husband likes me so I’m good.

[Englishd]

To those who get defensive when called out your creepster behavior. Pathetic

[Girlinterrupted]

I’m always late to the party. I definitely missed all of it. Thank you for standing up for what is right.

[Charlesfreck]

Has someone been caught being creepy on DMs again, but we’re not allowed to know who?
They MUST know what they’re doing, otherwise we’d be seeing inappropriate comments in the public threads all the time.
It’s virtually a form of bullying - very odd, going after people in recovery when there’s Tinder and a million other sha… dating apps out there.

[Englishd]

He did it publicly too. It’s the locked post from a few hours ago. Then he got all defensive when people called him out. Don’t worry if he creeps on a few more women he’ll be suspended

[Charlesfreck]

So, inappropriate in a post - it really is becoming Tinder ffs, they just don’t care!

[Runningfree]

I went and read his small rant. I get maybe his intentions were good or I hope so. But in my opinion immaculate is a word for food or a really clean item not a person. It’s not a compliment and I didn’t take it as one. I might have let it go had I not gotten another message today. I even considered to stop posting selfies but why, why should I have to stop when he was being weird. I almost didn’t even tell the moderators because of the exact reaction I knew he would have “I can’t even tell someone they are pretty” Word choices matter

[Englishd]

Clearly he’s taking it real seriously.

@CNevarezN

[CNevarezN]

You’re thinking too much on this.

[SassyRocks]

Telling us was 100% the right choice.

[SassyRocks]

It allows us to know what is going on, which is important. So, thank you!!

[DarrenUK]

I use immaculate when I’ve bleached my bin. Do you want me to bathe you in bleach?

[CNevarezN]

The fact is, it was brought to our attention and it was dealt with. If him or any other person ignores a legitimate warning we give him or her, we suspend. Simple as that.

[Runningfree]

You’re welcome. I really wasn’t gonna say anything because most of what he said passed in my head and it’s messed up that I was willing to just change what has been helping me. I had a little push from some ladies

[Runningfree]

I’m clean! Promise

“It puts the lotion on”

[SassyRocks]

I can’t emphasize enough how important it is that members flag things to bring to our attention. We need to know what is going on and that is how we find out.

It is the mods responsibility to deal with issues…and the members responsibility to let us know about them. We work together that way. And we appreciate your help so much!!

[SassyRocks]

@Runningfree

I had a little push from some ladies

I heard! And appreciated their push.