This is a little shameful to admit
I’m a dry drunk ,
haven’t coped since I quit drinking
With a ton of anxiety
Maybe there’s a certain unpleasantness to me
can’t make friends easily , only when someone makes a point of reaching to me
Sometimes
I’m bitter ,resentful
bitter with all the people that have doubted me over the years
remembering all the slick comments, quiet insults, I’ve had over the few years.
I go to a world class prestigious school, ranked top 10 in the world.
It is insatiably satisfying, to be able to undercut people who are trying to be passive aggressive in conversation
But also very unsure how far I can go,
with all this baggage, anxiety, depression. But I’ll try
So tiring being bitter
There’s a nostalgia to being able to relax
tired of being resentful,
It’s not like I choose these things for myself
I’ve tried therapy, but it felt like it just went in loops Without ever getting to the root of anything so I’m currently looking for a new therapist
That’s not all that I am tho
I can be very friendly playful when I feel Connected and safe to open up
There are words repeated quite often
“Dealing with underlying issues”
“Processing trauma”
“Getting to the root”
What does the work actually look like?
When will I truly change ?
No one wants to stay a dry drunk forever