@HappyButtersStotch you are missed 
Hope youâre ok 
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Beautiful!! Beautiful!! Huge congratulations to you.
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Thanks for reaching out, Iâm not doing badly but not well either. The last month was very intense. i had some argument with my ex and had a fight with my mother â actually it was a good reminder, that her approach to me hasnât changed a bit and most probably wonât change ever. I sold my apartment in Hungary. That was the last thing that bound me to my homeland physically, so I feel a bit rootless now. But the things happening there make it a lot more easier to distance myself from that country emotionally. I also had a few difficult decision to make and I started to prepare for my surgery, that will take place at the beginning of next year. Learning about the process just discourages me, I really donât like these medical stuff. I still struggle with smoking and I donât really see the point coming, when I say enough is enough. I have been isolated myself in the last few months and didnât really do considerable self-care. But I havenât drunk, donât eat sugar and spent a week in Germany at my friends so that was great.
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It is always good to hear from you. Sounds complicated and like you are dealing with life and emotions head on. That is a win in my mind. Sending 
your way as your journey continues.
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Good to hear from you again 
Yep, it all sounds tough regarding surgeries. Been following some people in transition over here in the Netherlands for a while now and it sounds tough, but the results are beautiful and from what I hear and read, definately worth it to them.
Take good care of yourself, weâre here for the mental support when needed !
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Always good to hear from you @Tomek . Hoping for your days to get brighter and sunnier. I know itâs a metaphor of sorts but itâs what I wish for you. I was thinking about the saying ânothing changes if nothing changesâ. You have made huge changes and my wish is that more and more you will feel contentment and realize more of your dreams, continue feeling/growing new roots mentally, physically and geographically. Many hugs. Much love ⌠and support.
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Thank you! The support I get here from all of you means a lot to me.
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Wow Tomek, what I read between the lines is that youâre setting yourself up for a bright new future. An authentic, autonomous and independent one. Takes a lot of courage to make the changes youâre making with all the emotions attached to it.
Take care of yourself and donât hesitate to reach out for support if needed
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Iâm doing awesome. Thanks for thinking of me. Iâm busy living my best sober/dry life.
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Wonderful to hear!
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Thatâs awesome that gives me great hope and incentive to keep giving back. As I look over the course of my 30 years. Giving back is what has kept me sober and humble. I am always grateful and loving life in sobriety. Thank you for sharing that. It inspires me.
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