You are missed #4

[Lighter]

Hey Julia, I am so glad you are here and are safe. You can start again right now and never have to feel this way again.

[Planipennia]

I am sorry to read that you are not well, Julia. But I’m glad you responded to this thread.

Just come back and try again. It will work out in the end.

[Juli1]

Hey Julia, just come back on board on the sober ship and be safe here

[Dazercat]

Hey Button.
I miss seeing that hopeful smiling face of yours. When you’re ready, we’ll be here. We got your back.

There’s a reason you started this sober journey in the first place. Probably because you’re life is unmanageable when you’re drinking. Just like mine was. Think about it. Don’t let shame win.
#fuckshame

[Twizzlers]

@Jasty2 how you doing?
@BrOKenWolf how are you ?
@DryIn785 Long time how are you ?
@maxwell thinking of you friend
@Bones_80 Hope your okay

[JazzyS]

@Catmama23
@Maestro
@anon84358113
@Steve14

Just checking in – hope you all are doing well

[Twizzlers]

@Hayleylujah Hi hope your well
@Pica How are you ?
@PinkyP Have I missed your posts? How are you
@IamThechange How are you friend

[Twizzlers]

@Alisa Have I just been missing your posts ? Hope your doing well
@Amy30 How are you ?
@HillbillyChris Thinking of you and family

[PinkyP]

Hi Twizzlers,
I’m doing great thanks. I’m still here multiple times a day but mostly reading and liking, not posting so much. Almost 2.5 years sober - I love it. Thanks for thinking of me

[Dazercat]

Any one seen or heard from
Jenny @LeeHawk
Or Joe @Jasty2

Miss you guys. Hope you’re well.

[Twizzlers]

Well I’m glad your still around
2.5 years !! That’s brilliant
Glad everything is okay

[Twizzlers]

@BLOODSHOTJOKER How are you ?
@Frandango How are you doing ?
@KevinesKay how are you ?
@Laraellelarissa how you doing?

[Juli1]

@Jasty2 Hey bro, are you ok?

[BrOKenWolf]

Hey, I’m here 983 days strong.

[Steve14]

Still here Jasmine! Just been flying under the radar

[JazzyS]

Great to hear from you friend. .

@Steve14

been flying under the radar

Lol…I can understand that

[KevinesKay]

@Twizzlers

@KevinesKay how are you?

So far this has been a great year, 2024. If it keeps going this well, it will be my best year ever.

What I like about this year …

• I have 2 really good connections in my life, consisting of a Friday face 2 face meeting formerly Reformers Unanimous. And my friend and I started a Tuesday morning Zoom meeting for Christian porn addicts.

• I mentor a handful of newcomers to the porn ministry that I’ve been a part of for almost ten years. I’ve often been hesitant to make such a time commitment, but realized that ministry is not a burden, but a blessing. There is something about aligning my life according to God’s will that fills my soul in a way that things of the world cannot.

• My marriage with my wife has taken a deeper direction. I’m really happy in it, and she is too.

• Everything makes sense now. God didn’t just want me to stop a behavior, a symptom. He wanted to expose deeper problems within me. And they were there. He wanted to make it easier for me. For it’s far easier to clean up my inside so that my outside would be clean than it is to clean up my outside hoping that some of that cleanliness might rub off on the inside.

After so many years, decades, I can no longer call myself a chronic relapser. And it’s worth it. I would do this again if I had. 30 years to get where I am is a small price to pay for the insight and self awareness that I have gained.

Thank you far asking and thinking of me.
I’ve still been around and will continue to do so.

[Pavlovs_Dog]

Thanks for asking Jazzy. You are the best. I’m going to try to do this again. I had friends come out to my house after 4 months of sobriety and probably don’t need to fill you in on the details, so suffice it to say that it is great to see you still poking at me, prodding me on. If I make it through tonight it would be day 1. I’m gonna see if I can’t send some good energy to some struggling folks. That always makes me feel better. Thanks again for checking in.

[JazzyS]

Hey friend
So good to see you posting and working towards day 1. You are in a safe place among friends… stay connected as we do need each other in this journey (especially during the beginning).

Sending strength and love your way - remember that you are not alone

[Amy30]

Thank you for checking up on me, my friend. I’m still hovering around the forums, but my mental health has been dipping for weeks, maybe months at this point. It’s been a tough year in my little corner of existence and things are just about starting to turn around. Or, that’s what I keep telling myself. But still here. Still alive. Still sober.