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Congrats on 90 days sober, keep on stacking them days ODAAT. 
Blessings and sobriety!
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Yea she definitely should have checked that with you first, special needs or not. Especially given the fact that you don’t drink, and the anxiety your daughter has over your husband drinking.
I am sure it was done out of thoughtlessness rather than anything intentionally disrespectful, hope so anyway! Still I can only imagine how pissed off you are feeling. Well done for exiting politely and calmly!
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You’re right, it was out of thoughtfulness. She heard my daughter ask me about tasting wine last year and I said yes, some day when we have some. Well I’m not a wine drinker and never had it in my house. My SIL happened to have it today which is unusual and I’m sure she thought it was ok after what I said a year ago. Knowing I’m sober now, she should have asked first.
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Just wanted to check in and say hi and good night to everyone, pulling up the covers on a long and arduous but grateful and sober day 1026. 
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Sorry about this Paul, just as you’re persistent in not giving up neither will I give up praying for you. Sending you strength, hugs and love my friend, keep on getting up and giving it your all odaat!
Blessings and sobriety!
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@MaryCarey35 Welcome! 3 days is good. You’re doing really well. Just handle one moment at a time.
@purr Congratulations on one year! You are amazing! Good luck on your test.
@Lisa07 I can definitely see why that would upset you. I’d feel that way too. I’m glad you’re going to talk to your sis in law tomorrow. I hope she respects what you have to say.
@Edmund May you only have pleasant dreams.
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Congratulations 
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- I’m grateful I was productive today, and that I didn’t stand in my own way. I’m grateful I got to see my son’s today. I’m grateful for the beautiful weather and fresh air. I’m grateful for continuing to move forward, even when I fall behind. I’m grateful for self love and acceptance, in all forms. I’m grateful for the friends I’ve made. I’m grateful for a new day tomorrow. I’m grateful for opportunities I’m creating. I’m grateful for simplicity. I’m grateful for breathing in and breathing out. I’m grateful I continue to try.
This is me today, yesterday, last week and maybe tomorrow. Good night 
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I’m here, I’m alive and I’m sober.
Day 58
It’s raining, so we’ll probably just go shopping and skip the huge huge playground if it doesn’t get better.
Still nightmares but the radio played country when I turned it on this morning, and that’s the start of a good day. 
Wishing y’all a happy week.
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Thank you 
. You are doing great 
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Morning/evening guys checking in. Day 3 off the drink and 2 off the cigs. Went for my 1st run in about 6 months this morning, feeling a bit more alive. Have a great day
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Huge congratulations, well done
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Thankyou so much!
@Clarity @Mno @siand @Lisa07 @anon79808082 @Girlinterrupted @M-be-free49 @Dragonflygirl82
Thank you all so much for your love and support. I don’t have the energy to reply individually which makes me feel like a prick but I need you all to know that I appreciate you. I’m on day 0 again. But I think I’ll be okay. You’re all so freaking beautiful I did not expect this much love.
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Day 236.
I dreamed about relapsing the last two days. No doubt it’s because of what I mentioned above.
My stepdad actually seems to be doing a lot better, but he’s not out of the hospital yet, so I don’t have very high hopes yet.
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Thank you for this, some really helpful information here. I was due to start CBT just as lock down started but it was cancelled. I’m in the process of setting it back up currently, most likely online which wasn’t my preference but we all need to be adaptable atm. I really appreciate you taking the time and offering a different perspective, its given me much food for thought
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Welcome! This is a great first step