Thatâs how we do it, pull those fricken reins back in tight like we had them those first few months. If anyone knows how to get through tough times itâs you. When you have a minute let us know whatâs up, best to letâs that shit out.
We got you.
So interesting how when one is in pain they quickly turn the finger.
Hoping everything given to Luna helps and she is brighter tomorrow.
Big hugs.
Congrats on your 5 months of consecutive sober days!!!
Huge accomplishment.
Itâs inspiring to see the numbers on this post.
Day 4 today for me today, gotta stay strong, this weekend will be the true test.
Stay positive and find things to keep you and your mind busy
Welcome Ryan.
Have a good read around. This place has been a great place for me to get support in my sobriety. Addiction is too tough to go it alone. We are stronger in numbers. And we are all worth it.
Here are two good threads to start:
Way to go Julie 
5 months is really awesome. And so are you.
I have had similar conversations with my partner in the past and it also made me feel horrible. However, I know that he is just looking at our drinking together days with rose tinted glasses. There was a lot of shit that just doesnât get thrown any more and I know Iâm pleased about that! And it definitely makes life easier for him too, whether or not he always appreciates it 
I do wish he would reevaluate his relationship with alcohol but he doesnât want to, and thatâs up to him.
Whether or not you are incompatible is obviously not for me, or anyone else, to say. But I guess if you keep doing whatâs right for you, it will become obvious. For me, its something I thought about a lot but decided not to have that conversation out loud until I felt clearer on it. Now itâs just not an issue, so Iâm glad I didnât. Your mileage may vary of course!
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I havenât had the honor of burning a bus down⊠yet 
Thank you so much ! X
So you donât just have being sober today. You have this amazing bit of wisdom, from direct experience, that will allow you to live the life you want. You have seen things as they really are, pretty awesome I reckon 
Thank you 
Obvs all milestones are great, but 300 sticks in my mind. Felt like a real shift in mindset happened for me around that time, a realisation that I could really do it. Congratulations! 
Sounds like therapy is really ticking along too. Having that space to explore some of the âwhyâ and âwhat nextâ is so important
Huge congrats on 300 days Tyler!! 
Thank you so much! X
Thereâs been a few busses that have burned down but not while Iâve been the captain of the ship
Welcome to the community!!!
We all got there 24 hrs at a time⊠they add up if you let them.
Congrats Tyler
It is a good support group they got here. Day 7 for me and it has helped alot. Hang in there and check back often.
Day 74.
7.22am
1 degree fml 
After I got up and turned the heater on and jumped back under the doona till the house warms up, my first thought this morning was " do cockatoos get cold, do they feel the cold!?!"
Its so so cold here this morning and the cockatoos were my first thought 
they have made me there slave
Day off today. Donât need to do anything today
@CATMANCAM 300 yay!! Nice work t!
@Grumpybeard welcome Ryan
@anon11129033 Alexis welcome to the 40âs club! Happy birthday girl
@Mno thinking bout luna hugs
For what I know it depends. They do feel the cold, and if theyâre used to a warm environment like indoors with letâs say like +18 C. They will probably feel cold if theyâre taken outside where itâs colder. If itâs a natural change of temperature, like the house is getting colder during night time itâll be natural for them too. As long as it isnât going to extremes. Itâs easiest to think that they are like us, they doesnât like extreme heat or extremely cold temperatures. They want it about the same year around.
But thereâs probably someone who knows a lot more then I do. Have a nice day 