Checking in daily to maintain focus #48

Congratulations on your 1 year sober @Twizzlers. Can’t really think of anybody more deserving of this than you. Such a great friend and supporter to everyone on here. Enjoy your day. :tada::green_heart:

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Heck yeah bro, exactly! Thanks @Kdog have an awesome day :sunglasses::metal:t2:

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Yay!! Been waiting for to to pop up. :clap::clap::clap: absolutely brilliant. Great achievement for a great person. Fully deserved well done. You are here for everyone. Enjoy all the accolades coming your way…theres going to be lots. :full_moon_with_face::+1: much love. :full_moon_with_face::+1:

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So glad to hear your feeling better :hugs::hugs:
I think the sleeping it off solution definitely does wonders, or brings us back to being able to rationalise our thoughts without them overwhemming us. I think i remember you calling it resetting the mind and for me this is exactly what i have to do.

This part of it is hard, i can relate to this feeling in my own way ans definitely glad you have woken up feeling better and worked out a way to get through it :purple_heart:

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Hope you get better soon man, back pain SUCKS!!! :sunglasses::metal:t2:

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Thank you @Twizzlers you’re an awesome person and we’re all grateful for you :blush::sunglasses::metal:t2:

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@Rockstar24777 @Leveller @Jasty2
Thank you all so much :hugs::hugs:
It means alot to be appreciated and noticed reaching this milestone.

@Jasty2 oh back pain i suffer with i do wish you speedy recovery :hugs:

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Congratulations! :purple_heart::bouquet::purple_heart: Such a wonderful achievement!

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You’re so welcome! I literally have the biggest smile right now. So proud of you and like the others have said, you are always so kind and supportive to everyone here and we appreciate you!!! Enjoy your day!!! :sunglasses::metal:t2:

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Thank you so much.
Thank you and everyone for noticing the person i have turnt into and grew to be along this sober journey we share together.

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Congrats @Twizzlers you are an asset to this community. Keep up the good work!

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Thank you so much :blush::purple_heart:
Even smiling here myself realising there real smiles, that i actually feel happy inside… im not pretending in okay like i was ayear ago this is all real and it feels good :grin:

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Hahaaa over four years sober here and still regularly feel like this. I have found it comes and goes in waves. Really I am just me throughout it all and it is how I feel about things that changes. That’s OK. We all struggle. What we struggle with changes. How much we struggle changes. But nothing lasts forever. I am talking to myself as much as I am to you here :kissing_heart:

Learning to accept our individual incompetences is rubbish and can feel at odds with the self improvement type journeys we go on. But ya know we can only start where we are. And competence is relative. I might struggle with things you find more straightforward and vice versa. It’s not a competition. We don’t have to continually be better versions of ourselves. It is OK to just find acceptance and give ourselves grace for the things we struggle with. For me at least that is self improvement enough. Sometimes I suck at it :laughing:

Whether or not we detach the reality is there. Might as well embrace it and find the bits of happiness along the way :hugs: :sparkles: :sparkling_heart:

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This is solid advice :sparkling_heart:

Link for anyone that doesn’t have this thread on their radar and could make use of it >>

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11 months sober! Wooohooooo!
I’m so pleased with my progress.

This community has helped me so much!

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Thank you @siand and thank you for linking that thread, I wasn’t sure how to do that!!! :sunglasses::metal:t2:

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Ahhhh well done! You really are such an inspiration. Congrats :tada:

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Congrats on 11 months @LAB keep up the good fight!

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Congratulations @LAB keep it up!!! :sunglasses::metal:t2:

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@Miranda @Rockstar24777 @Minatasha and anyone else that needs it, one of my faves that I think of often

credit Brad Montague on Instagram: "here’s to another try"

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