I wrote a bit about it on my thread here:
I had no idea we were getting our year on the same day! Congrats to you, sweet lady!
Oh and this happened today! You know, in the past month i feel clearer and less frustrated with life. Ive also stepped out of my comfort zone and started ju jitzu, which im really (really) diggin! Wife and myslef are doing very good without the decrease in intimacy i had feared. In fact she has started painting again! So lifes all aces for kdog right now. Gonna get done work and bang out a distance run.
Hope everyone has a content and sober day. Thank you for your support and wisdom as always.
Well done @Twizzlers @RosaCanDo sober twins!! Congratulations ![]()
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happy 2 weeks!!
Amazing!!! Well done!
Me neither woohooo i knew we where close but wasnt sure how much xx a massive congratulations to you on your year may you have blessed lovely day ![]()
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And a year later we find out we are sober twins ![]()
glad we made it Rosa x
To everyone who has said congratulations it really honestly means so much to me ![]()
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I will be on here later this evening to catch up and congratulate eveeyone celebrating today i want you all to know how proud i am of you all and how gratefull for all the support because i wouldnât be here today with out you all. ![]()
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Oh my goodness that is a fanastic accomplishment! Look at the road traveled over the past year and all of your growth! Its truly something very few people know and something you should be very proud of! On that note put this accomplish in your cookie jar so next time you have something hard in front of you you can always think to yourself about how you did this the impossible task and you can do anything! You are no longer a creature of habit with limitations, know that and move through the next year without mental limitations.
Happy 1st Soberversary! Its always great to see you on here ![]()
This is wonderful! Thank you @Imcrafty for your support!

Congratulations @RosaCanDo on your 1 year SAF. Super happy for you. You deserve it.
Day 374 checking in after a long week at work
Going to Nandoâs for some food then home for a early nite hope everyone is well and going strong ![]()
For me, itâs dealing with the massive guilt/shame thatâs so bad the first few weeks. Iâm really fighting it right now. Just trying to smile and keep it positive.
Nice work!! A whole year can make a huge difference with who and where we are in life, glad youâre here, doing the things it takes! Thatâs so impressive!
Thatâs awesome! Itâs so wild to think about all the changes that can happen in that length of time; youâre inspiring, and doing the work on the daily! Keep on keeping on, hereâs to another year!
Having thoughts about relapsingâŚ
Both on alcohol and toxic on.off
codependent relationship!
Hard criticism about myself in my head.
Thought would really be over that!
I think I want to hurt myself with above mentioned behaviorsâŚ
I wonâtâŚ
This night wonât be easy.
Where does this fucking come from ![]()
Twinzies⌠I wish I had a sobriety twin. You both are killing it @Twizzlers
Day 209. Moving right along. Ive been waiting all day for it to rain.
Another day. Id rather have tried than not. I cleaned the litter box and boiled beans. The food i made was good in theory but something about it made my stomach sick. I wish I didnt exist.
Im going to get up in a few minutes and set the timer to maintain my room. I went through my watercolors I did this summer and idek how I did this many. I was obsessed with painting lines.
Im tired. Im so tired. I dont want to clean the kitchen.
But i did anyway. Maybe I will try to turn my brain off and focus on cleaning then making art. I can finish a painting and hang it outside my room. Im putting stuff up in my room. I put an absolutely lovely painting up that i traded with someone.
I put 2 of my paintings in frames and put up another one.
Im going to the cafe tomorrow. Nap tonight.
It comes from the addictive personality in our head. I know Iâm definitely my own worst critic. We see and feel things about ourselves that other people donât see, because theyâre really not there to begin with. Which is why we use Alcohol, Drugs, Sex whatever, as a coping mechanism. Just try to remember it really is all in your head. Iâm glad you already made up your mind that you wonât do something youâll regret big time later. I know itâs hard but you know these feelings will eventually pass as long as you donât act on them. ![]()
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Congrats on one year @RosaCanDo well done!! You should be super proud.
@Benwa10 congrats on 2 weeks, the firsts weeks are super tough. Your doing an amazing job.
Same to @Kdog 30 days is such a great achievement. Early sobriety is not easy and you are killing it. Martial arts is an awesome outlet, I used to practice karate years back and it was so great for making friends and keeping disciplined.

