So did I, but I’m not sure which post.
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You know what we need to just stop. You really aren’t in touch with reality until you’re really truly ready to face the truth of your addiction. We will never be clean or sober for a lifetime is not only my opinion what fact. When we hurt the people around us as bad as we do, over and over again for a drug that we choose to do. Over our family and friends as I said many times because we would rather be addicted than loved. It takes That’s more than reality to wake up and only then can we beat an addiction is all I’m trying to say and only then do we earn the respect it takes for forgiveness. Because then we respect ourself and walk away from the thing that " this addiction" that is kills us. So do me a favor Don’t bother me no more addiction addict remarks…
This is not about you It’s about an addiction and addicts, And when we become totally clean then we will grow up… Specialist in this addiction say we start growing up when we stop using for our addiction,
Who are you talking to did you not see the post she made and then delete it I am not hysterical this person is taking this personal when it has nothing to do with them If you guys don’t want to speak truthfully and honestly you should not post these posts I am also maintaining my clean sober life of 5 years…
I think that you mistake your opinion for fact. There is no need to get heated, it serves no purpose. Congratulations on 5 years btw 
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You should read everybody else’s replies in between then then you would be able to keep up because this is totally gone off too far Little Miss chatterbox I don’t know why you would have a name like that it clearly It’s this situation You’re timing in somewhere that has nothing to do with you and clearly as you said you don’t know what is being said or going on because I made a comment 100 sentences back everybody keeps chiming in about something that they don’t know the first comment You would have to go back and read the very first post I simply made a comment and everybody’s posting and commenting on it and I’m replying to each reply That’s it nothing more by the way nice to meet you My name is Liza
Hi Dan nice to meet you So what part of my opinion is not fact maybe you can help me out here?
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Opinions are never facts, that’s why they’re opinions. Have a great day 
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Speak for yourself. Not all addicts fit this mold. It’s best you share your own experiences when replying to posts.
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Lol. Wtf. Yeah you got me. I’m clearly drunk that’s why I called you out on your arrogance 
that’s the only possible explanation! Haha.
Really wanna go back to ignoring you now.
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Maybe its time stop ruining this tread with all this discussion thats going on now? 
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First off I’m not heated If I was heated this would all be in capital letters everybody else is the ones getting heated and upset because they cannot debate without getting run over because see I like the truth and I deal with true factual facts see I’ve been an alcoholic drug addict all my life since I was six actually my grandmother started feeding me rum and cokes in the restaurant She would order them give it to me and order another one for herself I’m also a sexual abuse survivor, rape survivor, And my addiction does not just stop with drugs So I have been in and out of counseling all my life since the age of seven I learned probably about 25 years ago you don’t heal until you learn not to lie to yourself and counselor
1.The true fact is that nobody likes the truth nobody wants to tell the truth That is fact. What is not fact that we hurt everybody we love when we’re in an active addiction over and over.
2.That we are liars, thieves, and habitual at all, when we’re in active addiction
3. That we will still rob and kill to get our needs done and heard when we’re in active addiction
4. We lie to ourselves when we are sober until the next drink about the next drink and we will enable the next alcoholic or drug addict.
I don’t understand what part is a lie
5. That as long as someone tells us that it’s okay that we used we’re going to continue to slip and fall that’s not true?
6. it’s true when we are made accountable for our actions is the only time we will not use that is fact and when I say accountable is when we have to stand up and face the facts that we used and say some in reality not that oh that’s okay you use you’ll get over it that is not ffacing. I’ve been taking hydrocodone since I was 7 years old I’ve been drinking alcohol since I was 8 I’m 58 years old now you figure those numbers out I was they started giving me Demerol shots at 15 0 mg of Demerol and 150 mg of phenergan I’ve been an addict all my life been sexually abused since the age of probably 13 so I’ll tell you anything you want to know about facts and I can speak about them openly I was prostituting at the age of 18 and that is facts. I’ve been in and out of counseling all my life only to know that only the truth works if you want to get well I’ve not had one set back since I started on the truth and being honest I have a good life God has blessed me since I started telling the truth and being honest I’m not being mean here I’m not being hysterical I’m just being honest and I can be that way because I’m clean and sober and honest with myself with my friends and with God
No posts were deleted, other than the one you deleted.
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Yes there was… and that’s why I decided to delete mine
I can assure you, no posts were deleted but yours. I’m done with this. Speak from your experience only and stop with the “we”.
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I’m sorry that my post to this post has upset you I didn’t mean to but this is where it is taking me and I guess that maybe knowing that what he has done and will how he lost friends his friend over what he did took me there because I found myself at one point in my life doing the same thing but me getting sober I lost a lot of friends that never came back but me being a user I lost even more friends that meant a lot to me
By being honest is how,That’s how I got here. be honest!
Circles,goes nowhere,doesn’t help the addict that’s asking for advice in the first post. Derailment topic 
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He has to be honest w/ his self. Why his friend is upset? If he’s on here asking what to do, then he’s not being honest with his self, or he wouldn’t have to ask what to do. It’s going to take time, He’s already done this once? So he knows what to do! I feel for him I really do in my heart! But he’s lying to him self Just like an active addict if he has to ask what to do…
Please stop picking