I don’t know if anyone will read this…
I relapsed today. It took me a while to admit that I have a problem. I don’t need to drink every day and if I drink it’s usually in the evening. But once I start, it’s impossible to stop. I once was sober for 2 years and the people who know me from that time don’t believe me when I say I drink until I pass out. They have the idea that I’m put together and can’t imagine me as an alcoholic. The people I hang out with nowadays don’t have any idea of my problem. They just know I drink.
Everything changed when I moved to another country and after a while COVID hit and I lost my job. I also had a cancer scare and was sharing a house with some horrible people.
My husband is a great person. He loves me so much, but I feel like I’m a horrible wife to him and I don’t understand why he is still with me.
We usually drink together but he is not a heavy drinker. He has self control. I don’t know if he is enabling me, but today he went out for cigarettes and he asked me if I wanted something. I was fidgeting in the kitchen because we always start drinking on Sundar while I’m cooking our lunch. I really wanted to drink and he offered, so I caved. He knows what i want and he bought it. He also said he doesn’t mind if I drink but I feel I’d be a much better person if I didn’t.
Tonight after I woke up ( I passed out at around 3pm) I told him I want to change and that I need his help. We agreed we are going to stop drinking and smoking.
I’m not well and I told him that if it wasn’t for him, I would have killed myself a while ago.
He doesn’t know what to say, but I’m glad I told him what I’m feeling. I think he’ll support me and help me go through this. Because i can’t do it by myself. I’m just not strong enough. I hope I’ll make him proud.
If you have any tips or words of encouragement, I’ll appreciate it so much.
Thanks for reading