My hero!!! Congrats!!!
You look different with the facial hair. I like it, it suits you. Different from your profile pic. Clean and sober is the way to go!!!
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Hey, was taking me a year to get to the top of the thread to post my pic so I am just responding to yours. Any tips on how to post without scrolling up through thousands of posts??
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Awesome thanks! My mom is a 10 year survivor. I do the relay with her every year. Many people I know and love have been effected by cancer
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I am out of likes - but congratulations on being a survivor!!!
By the way, I am Jessica Lynn lol
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When ur looking at the list of threads on the main page instead of clicking on the name look all the way to the rightâŚthe top number is the total number of replies on the thread, the bottom gray and smaller number is how many minutes, hours, or days ago the last reply wasâŚclick on that bottom number and itâll bring u into the thread at the last reply.
Thank you! So I should click on the last reply and reply to them? Or there is another way to join the convo without replying?
Once you get to the bottom of the thread by doing what @Neighbrofthebeast668 posted, thereâs a blue reply button that will reply to the thread rather than to the post above you.
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Sweet, thanks
Wow that must have been very traumatic. I have a friend who is a survivor and she is 26. She is in counseling because it left her with some issues that she was having difficulty with like anxiety and OCD from her need to feel a sense of control and her fear that something was wrong every time her body was doing something seemingly unusual. Iâm proud of you for getting sober 
ď¸ much love
I let it grow now til itâs on my shoulders again 
Awww thank you thatâs very kind. I was having a particularly good day that day. I donât look so fresh today 
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This is a great place to be. I have reached a point in my life where I understand and accept that my life may not be perfect, but it is pretty darn great. It is mine to make the most of. I find myself frequently counting my blessings, and I now tend to focus on whatâs right and good, rather than wrong and bad. Iâve quit chastising myself for mistakes in judgement, and put down those âI shouldaâsâ , which only generate regrets and negative thoughts. Iâve quit trying to rack up âresume virtuesâ and now focus on âeulogyâ and âlegacyâ virtues.
And in matters of the heart, I am living proof that a divorce, while painful, is also an opportunity to grow and meet the âOneâ. The other day, over breakfast, I found myself looking into my wifeâs face. She was a bit unsettled and said âwhat?â. I said âI was just thinking how I never tire of your face. 20 years, and it still makes my heart skip.â I meant it, and she was smiling all day.
Yes, I am in a very good place.
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Well I never! I worked in Gillingham for years and never had any idea there was such an amazing sight on the coast.
I switch weeklyâŚlong hair, short hair, beard, clean shavenâŚmy look changes like my attitude
Like an American Girl DollâŚperfection.